I am so sorry JoJo. Her light was so bright her loss is felt by even those of us who never physically met her. May your lifetime of wonderful memories offer solice during these darker days.

Sending love. I’ve enjoyed the stories you’ve shared.

Awww.....I'm so sorry to hear this. What a wonderful long life she lived and what a joy for you to have had her as your mum. Such a beautiful picture of the two of you.

I am sorry for your loss, Jojo. You were lucky to have such a great mom. Sending hugs from afar.

Losing your mother is so difficult. Strength to you and your family in these tough days ahead.

(((HUGS)))

Jojo, Ive always enjoyed stories about your lovely mom. She certainly seems to have had a full life, well lived. Yes, you are her mini-me. My thoughts are with you and your family.

I'm so sorry for your loss. You have shared stories here - what an awesome person who lived a wonderful life.

I'm so sorry for your loss. May her memory be a blessing, May you find comfort and joy in the beautiful memories of a wonderful person.

I'm so sorry to hear this, Jojo. Condolences to you and your family.

Jojo, I’m so sorry for your loss. She sounds like an amazing person. You left out her greatest accomplishment— raising a daughter like you. May happy memories of her bring you comfort and strength.

It sounds like you have a fantastic mom. You have wonderful memories to cherish. I am sorry to hear that she passed.

Jojo, I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful mom.

She was lovely, So sorry for your loss.

I’m sorry, Jojo. No matter how long we have our wonderful mothers, it’s never long enough. Savor your memories.

What a beautiful picture and tribute to your Mom. I'm so sorry for your families loss. Keep her memory alive in your thoughts and actions. Hugs to you.

She was a beautiful person. So sorry for your loss. Losing a parent is so difficult.

Thank you for sharing her with us here. Those we love never really leave us because they are a part of us. My condolences.

Sorry to see this sad news - wishing you peace.

My husband told me, after my mom passed, that to see her again, all I had to do was to look in a mirror.

I can certainly see her face in yours.

I’m so sorry for your loss. She sounds like an amazing woman. (((hugs)))

Oh, Jojo, I'm so sorry. I've always enjoyed your posts about your mom. The paragraph in your final update is about as beautiful a legacy as someone can possibly leave. ((((Hugs)))))

Aw. I am so sorry to read this.

You did right by her. I was so impressed with how you handled the things you shared here. You were blessed to have her for your mom, and in return she was blessed to have you with her every step of the way. Y'all did right by each other. What a true legacy.

Jojo...what a lovely tribute to your lovely Mom. Thank you for sharing her wiith us through the years & I have wondered how she was doing. You will miss her I know...hold onto all the goodness of her in your heart. Warm thoughts to you & your family.

I am so sorry to hear this news, Jojo. Thanks for sharing your amazing mom with us these past few years. Sending you a big hug.

I'm speechless, Jo. I stopped and admired that lovely photo of you and your Mom for quite awhile. When I read your first sentence, my heart sank. Even though we are not close in ways that real life friends are, I honestly can feel your pain at the loss and also the gratitude you must have for the wonderful mother that gave you life. Know that my thoughts are with you now.

Oh, Jojo, I have often wondered how she was doing. I am so sorry to hear your sad news. My thoughts are with you.

Jojo, your mom sounds like such an accomplished and loving person. I know you will miss her terribly but will also have many wonderful memories. Love the photo.

I'm so sorry to hear of her passing. She lived an extraordinary life and was blessed to have a daughter like you and vice versa.

Jojo, I’m so sorry to hear this news. Please accept my condolences. She raised a lovely daughter.

Thank you for allowing us to share in this very sad passing with you. What a lovely mother you were fortunate enough to have. None of us are ready to lose our mothers at any age. Sending condolences.

I’m sorry for your loss. Wasn’t your family blessed to have her for so long.

A truly beautiful mother, in every way. You were blessed to have each other for a long, never long enough, time. Thank you for sharing her life with us.

E-hug coming your way, Jojo. So sorry for your loss.

Jo, I am so sorry to hear this. But she'll always be with you, in a corner of your heart.

What a lovely photo and wonderful testament and tribute to your mother. I'm sure she felt the same about you. Lucky to have each other; sorry she is gone.

“Can I end on an unrelated positive note?”

Great news! They’re lucky to have you. :)

I am so sorry for your loss. I've always enjoyed reading about your mother and admired the great relationship you shared. You were so fortunate to have each other. Cherish the memories.

My deep condolences for your loss of your lovely sweet mother.

That is wonderful news, Jojo! I agree with Jilly, they are lucky to have you.

The celebration of life is a wonderful way to honor her memory. What a relief for you, knowing your dad will be taken care of by the same aides.

We have been to Selby many times and have brought the grands when we were renting in the area each Spring. So glad they are taking you into their fold. They are lucky to have you.

The plans for your Dad and your Mother’s cremains sound perfect .

Wishing continued peace for all of you. c

I’m so sorry for you loss, jojo. That is a lovely photo of you with your mother.

How wonderful that you have been able to keep yor parents at home.

And I like your good news. Congratulations!

I was worried about your Dad, but it sounds like the best possible situation for him. And yes, what a lovely final resting place for Mom. Congrats on the Selby - I was hoping you'd end up there as I can't imagine you post-Longwood!

My heartfelt sympathy. Loved hearing stories about her, she was an amazing lady

Good news about the gardens Jo. Being back in a beautiful nature setting will be a balm for your soul. They have no idea how lucky they are!

So this poem was read @ our church yesterday and I thought it fits this thread:

"The loved ones we call the dead

depart from us and for a while are absent.

And then as if called back by our love,

they come near us again.

They enter our dreams.

We feel they have been near us

when we have not thought of them.

They are simply here, simply waiting

while we are distracted among our obligations.

At last it comes to us:

They live now in the permanent world.

We are the absent ones." - Wendell Berry

I'm so sorry for your loss, but am honored to have shared in her story and know the world was a better place for her legacy. Part of that legacy lives on with you and all the smiles and stories you share. Selby Gardens was wise and fortunate to get you. It is such a blessing to know your dad is in good hands.

Please accept my condolensces as well, jojo. I've enjoyed reading about your wonderful mom over the years. She was very special and has definitely passed that onto you. Take comfort in your wonderful memories. That picture is just beautiful. Hugs.

I’m so sorry to hear this. I hope you take comfort in all your beautiful memories.

Jojoco, so happy to read you’ll be at the Selby. How could they not choose you? And good to read your Dad will be in such a good situation.