I agree with what MamaRachel said. Oak and grey are a dreadful combination.
Given that you said this is your first house and you're only two years in...
For the least amount of expense--what I would do is move the oven stack to the end of the run on that far wall. (Involves only doing a switcheroo with the existing cabinets.) Then replace the counters with a stock laminate that works with the color of the oak. Such as Carrara Pearl available at Menards. Tumbled Roca or Classic Crystal Granite (maybe) at Home Depot. Or maybe Kalahari Topaz from Lowe's...
Also, I would remove the wood panels from the dishwasher. IMO, it would look better. Fully integrated dishwashers look great. Partially clad ones don't. And since you don't like the wood, less of it is better, right?
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