Several months ago I was carefully reading in Houzz editions all sorts of suggestions for undergoing a Major home renovation in essential areas including (as in our case) a large kitchen, three bathrooms, a bar, and a laundry room. This was a daunting experience for us to even discuss together. It was no surprise that we had been discussing [er, avoiding] this renovation for at least 2 years without being able to make any progress towards realizing our dream. Taken altogether this mega initiative felt a lot like trying to crowbar the top off of Pandora’s box—the swirling multitude of questions and worries would inevitably, though, be squashed back down into the ‘box’ until we could face the possibilities again sometime.
Frankly, I had grown weary of our inability to make momentum! “Two well educated adults who have been through ‘some’ home remodeling in the past should have been able to face this straight on,” I thought to myself. What was wrong with us this time?
Fortunately I found a pathway out of this self-imposed quagmire, thanks to Houzz. With real-life examples of major home renovation projects that architects & building designers had envisioned then structured, I was able to perceive philosophies as well as tactics relatable to projects such as ours and through that the appealing example emerged of a local building designer Jonathan Pelezzare (Palm Desert) who was noted in one article that reflected upon finished projects. I was impressed and couldn’t wait to email him.
In hindsight, we always needed the right architects & building designers help, particularly someone who could help us get out of our own way. I even suggested to Jonathan during our first meeting that his primary job was to keep us focused on our goal instead of observing us sink into frustration and the great, “never mind.” We needed someone whose working style was to listen actively and patiently while weaving our perspectives into an articulated set of questions and decisions back to us, the sum of which would lead him to problem solve, draft drawings and then renditions that we could scrutinize.
It all sounds pretty clear in hindsight, but it hadn’t been clear to us that we were missing such an important member of our home renovation ‘team,.’ Because of the breadth of Jonathan’s attractive portfolio, coupled with his unassuming, straight-forward, genial style and likability, we took the leap-of-faith to trust that he would corral us towards real progress in a way that we hadn’t been able to do by ourselves.
After six months with two “final” plans (length was a function of our indecisiveness) were our instincts right? Two days ago we turned in Jonathan’s completed plans to our city’s planning department and anticipate a building permit. Before long. That is to say, We’re finally oN our way!
Oh those pesky details; yes, we will have to hire a contractor or contractors [plural], something that we’re not looking forward to. But now we know that we will have an extended member on our team in case we’re stymied by the process and want to go in hiding again. While it may not be true with every architects & building designer, Jonathan’s with us for the duration and for the first time, we can visualize our like-new and improved home; and, you know what? Thanks to Jonathan, we like what we see!
In case you are interested, our early 1980’s one-level home of 2,800 square feet is located in the sunny California desert. While the style is Transitional with the renovation we expect to see it as Contemporary “with a healthy respect for history.” In my mind’s eye, I also (fore)see our new and improved home as Sublime, Timeless, and very Comfortable.
I’ll write again as the progress moves forward. I expect more photographs depicting progress to follow as well. The photos included are “Before the Work.”