My husband penned this 'dilemma' and I said why not ask the houzz community? The dog we mention here is about 6 years old, not a puppy. Thanks for your opinions.
we recently moved into a new home which we have decided to make shoe free: new hard floors, new furniture and living near the beach; when very good friends of ours who visit frequently came for the first time, their cocker spaniel immediately "pooped" twice on our new carpets. Everyone immediately sprang into action and cleaned the mess up with appropriate apologies. Thirty minutes later their pet began skooting on new carpets in another room. I have suggested to these very good friends that they might consider leaving their beloved pet home next time. We visit in each other homes regularly and we bring our dog with us.
Their dog has had this problem (in our house) in the past but not recently. I knew this would be a sensitive area but felt justified given the circumstances. We have no problem leaving our pet at home on any visit to their place if we place restrictions on their dog.
They immediately objected so we are trying to reassess the situation. Trying to watch their pet every moment when they are here is stressful to us
but not to them(him).
What do you suggest?