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I have a sunflower request

16 years ago

It's actually for Joann, because she has to deal with this, and for Ron, her partner, who is going through it.

He has been dealing with heart problems for many years, has a pig-valve and a pacemaker and a defib, takes 13 medications and should have some adjustments done for his heart, then he fell and apparently injured his hip - or so he and his doctors thought. But his hobbling around got worse and worse, so he underwent a series of scans and it was discovered that his femur has a huge hole in it, apparently all that's left is the outer covering, as thin as an egg-shell.

He's in the hospital and scheduled for amputation, it's delayed until the blood-thinners he takes for his heart problem have worn off.

It's hard for me to imagine what this is to deal with, more so for Ron and Joann, so if you could spare some sunflowers

to send their way, it would be appreciated.

Comments (28)

  • 16 years ago

    Lilo, a field of sunflowers is coming your way for Joann and Ron and my candle is and stays lit.

    Anneliese

    Hope is faith holding out its hand in the dark.
    George Isle

  • 16 years ago

    I almost couldn't open this. The thought of you, Lilo... then it hit me, you'd never ask, it had to be Joann. And it is. But you're all going thorugh this. Sunflowers, wishes, prayers, thoughts, you name it are coming your way, to all of you, from middle Tennessee. Take care and let us know if we can do more.

    Much care,
    Robin

  • 16 years ago

    You have them Lilo....tell Joann we are with her and Ron in thought.

  • 16 years ago

    Oh Lilo...what an awful thing for all of you to be facing.I'll be thinking of you daily and waiting to hear how Ron and Joann are doing.

  • 16 years ago

    Earlier today the GP couldn't access this page to post a follow-up, so I'm glad I checked, again.

    Lilo, my heart goes out to your daughter and her partner--and to you, too. You all must be devastated by this news. Please know that sunflowers, hugs, caring thoughts and prayers, too, are being sent your way.

  • 16 years ago

    If a prayer will help sending one that way.

  • 16 years ago

    Lilo, thank you for telling us about this; you know that you, Joanne and especially, Ron will be receiving fields of gorgeous Sunflowers, best wishes, positive thoughts and many prayers from all corners.

    What a frightening thing for Ron to have to face---I am just so sorry and saddened.

    I remember having a Blessed Mother candle which I lit on your and Joann's behalf when I'd show up at the car lot each morning some years back---I hope an ordinary candle will do this time!
    (((Hugs)))

  • 16 years ago

    Lilo, my heart goes out to Joanne, Ron and yourself. He's showed great courage through his heart troubles, I remember, so I hope he's able to draw on that strength now. And I always feel it's so very, very hard for the people sitting in that waiting room, waiting for the doctor to give them news. You'll all be in my thoughts.
    Sunflowers on their way from CT.

  • 16 years ago

    Thank you for letting us know. You, Ron and Joanne will be in my thoughts. In fact, remember those literal sunflowers I planted while thinking of him last year? I noticed a volunteer seedling from them earlier today. I'll think of Ron tomorrow when I transplant it someplace safe.

  • 16 years ago

    Good thoughts and sun flowers coming your way. I had a non ossified fibioma the size of a chicken egg in the right tibia that was discovered when I broke my leg at 13. When I broke it again in my motorcycle accident at 16 the fibioma healed due to marrow being moved around by a steel rod inserted the length of the bone. It my be worth further investigation.

  • 16 years ago

    I am thinking of the three of you.Such sad news.

  • 16 years ago

    Lilo, there are millions of sunflowers in my thoughts for Ron, Joanne and for you.
    This one is a tough one for them to deal with.
    I am so sorry.

  • 16 years ago

    Major mojo coming to all of you.

  • 16 years ago

    Sunflowers from Maryland. Steve S.

  • 16 years ago

    Don, the procedure you had: a metal rod replacing the femur, is what the doctors have in mind. Problem is the femur is so fragile that the slightest bump could shatter if and damage the muscle and nerves and blood-vessels, so then amputation appears the only answer. That's why Ron is restricted to bed rest until the surgery can be done,until the blood-thinners wear off.

  • 16 years ago

    Thanks for more info Lilo. Hope the replacement procedure is possible and works.

  • 16 years ago

    Best wishes and bushels of sunflowers from Washington state.

  • 16 years ago

    I'm sorry to hear he is facing such challenges. Sunflowers coming your way, of course.

  • 16 years ago

    Sunflowers and prayers on the way for Joanne and Ron. Please keep us posted.

  • 16 years ago

    More sunflowers to Ron, Joann and you!

  • 16 years ago

    Don,
    This is Joann I met with his bone doc and staff and they are putting in a steel rod.
    The hard part is when I got home our 35year equine son was dying. He died. I don't know right we can only do one day at the time but it seems to to going to one hour at the time.
    There is an old rock and roll song...There will be days like these. I guess so.

  • 16 years ago

    Hugs to you, Joann. Mixed news, rough day, my best to you, Ron, Lilo and family. Still sending thoughts for the best possible results for the procedure. My condolences about your equine friend.

  • 16 years ago

    I keep all of you in my thoughts. My husband's first hip replacement was done when it was still pretty experimental. When it needed to be redone, his surgeon had to insert a 13' titanium rod and "enough concrete to fill a sinkhole". The femur is still doing well. Hope that Ron can be helped without amputation.

  • 16 years ago

    Thank You Everyone for the sunflowers and wishes.I have been so busy going to the hospital and going to work, when I get home I just crash.
    We now know something, they are putting in a rod for Ron's femer. Thank you Don and Annelise for your shareing your experience and encourgement.

  • 16 years ago

    Still sending sunflowers, thoughts and prayers.

    How is Ron doing?

    As well as Joann and lilo?

    {{gwi:160603}}

  • 16 years ago

    Ron's surgery is today, Wanda. We are hanging in there, I shall post an update as soon as we know more.
    It's been so depressing, the weather doesn't help, in the low fifties, dark, cloudy and raining day after day. Joann is driving to Willits to see Ron, I worry about the drive, this road is somewhat dangerous,
    I know things will get better by and by.

  • 16 years ago

    lilo,
    Thanks for the update.
    I'll lift up prayers for Joann's driving safety as well as Ron's surgery.
    Wanda

  • 16 years ago

    Holding all of you in my thoughts.

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