Dearest gardening community. Thank you so much in advance for your time. I'm hoping you can help me ID these issues with my precious tomato plants that I love so much.

It has been very very rainy in NYC over the past month and my containers have had very wet soil. There is drainage, but there really hasn't been much sun besides this weekend and a few days here and there.

The plants feel a bit weak to the touch and I'm seeing two different types of leaf damage on each plant. The tips of the leaves are curling and grayish on one plant (top photo) and the other has specs and leaf damage as well (bottom photo).

Also, I thought it was a calcium deficiency so I used Tomato Rot Stop by Bonide but that has not helped and could have made things worse.

Thank you dearly for your help.