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Thanksgiving - What do you do special?

16 years ago

Thanksgiving Survey -- family traditions? special foods?

Following Lynn's lead. Since Thanksgiving is over for the Canadians, and hasn't yet occurred in the U.S. I thought this might be a good time for questions.

1. Do you have any special traditions you always do on Thanksgiving?

2, What special foods do you serve? Does Auntie bring the Jello salad everone hates, but pretends to eat, not to hurt her feelings?

And, along that line:

3, Do you still serve the dish people inwardly groan when they see, whether it is green bean casserole,candied yams, or something else, because "it just wouldn't be Thanksgiving without it"?

4. Do your family and guests dress up, or wear jeans?

5. Visit, watch tv, go hunting (critters or retail goodies), what do you do in the afternoon?

6. Host or guest?

Please add any questions I've left out.

I'll start.

1. Do you have any special traditions you always do on Thanksgiving?

I designated my "Friendly Village" by Pfalzgraff as the *special Thanksgiving dishes*. The kids loved that.

2. What special foods do you serve? Does Auntie bring the Jello salad everone hates, but pretends to eat, not to hurt her feelings?

Mostly just the usual. One of the desserts is always pumpkin cake roll, and I always make Mother's fresh fruit salad. (Ambrosia to the Southern folks.) My late MIL always made a congealed salad. She was a lovely person, and I thought the world of her, but in 30+ years, I didn't ever see anyone actually *eatting* the salad on their plate.

3. Do you still serve the dish people inwardly groan when they see, whether it is green bean casserole,candied yams, or something else, because "it just wouldn't be Thanksgiving without it"?

Never did, but when I was hosting, if someone wanted to bring something, that was okay.

4. Do your family and guests dress up, or wear jeans?

My family always wore our "Sunday best" for holidays. I can remember when the men on both sides of my family wore suits and ties or dress pants and ties. The women and older girls all wore heels with their dresses. DH's family has always been casual, and wear jeans. Where we go now is also casual -- jeans, capris, whatever you want. Most places are more casual now; work, church, or hanging out.

5. Visit, watch tv, go hunting (critters or retail goodies), what do you do in the afternoon?

There is always someone doing one of the above.

6. Host or guest?

Guest now, host in the past. Each has it's advantages.

Your turn!

Lee

Comments (10)

  • 16 years ago

    1. Do you have any special traditions you always do on Thanksgiving? One thing is to serve little candy cups with candy cone, etc. and ever how many pieces you get you have to say something you are thankful for.

    2, What special foods do you serve? Does Auntie bring the Jello salad everone hates, but pretends to eat, not to hurt her feelings? Turkey and dressing, yams, corn casserole, homemade rolls, fruit salad, pea salad, green bean casserole, homemade cranberry sauce, pumpkin pie, pecan pie, and some sort of chocolate dessert, all of these are somebody's favorite.

    And, along that line:
    3, Do you still serve the dish people inwardly groan when they see, whether it is green bean casserole,candied yams, or something else, because "it just wouldn't be Thanksgiving without it"? As above, somebody likes, the greenbean casserole is only for my sister-in-law and her kids.

    4. Do your family and guests dress up, or wear jeans? I am sorry to say it's jeans. I would have everybody dress, but it would not go over very good.

    5. Visit, watch tv, go hunting (critters or retail goodies), what do you do in the afternoon? We used to always have a baseball game, now we live in town, we always play, games, cards and last year we sang karoke.

    6. Host or guest? Host

    7. Do you eat at noon or dinner? Noon, straight up, so you can eat again later.

    8. Do you have overnight house guests? Yes usually 4-6.

  • 16 years ago

    Excess, I like the ?s you added. Knew I would forget something. We also eat noonish, no overnight guests, though.

    Yum, yum, your menu sounds familiar! Except for the corn casserole, we have the things you mentioned. I used to make corn fritters, though.

    Now you've made me hungry!

    Lee

  • 16 years ago

    Excess, I like the ?s you added. Knew I would forget something. We also eat noonish, no overnight guests, though.

    Yum, yum, your menu sounds familiar! Except for the corn casserole, we have the things you mentioned. I used to make corn fritters, though. Our chocolate is usually a German Chocolate cake.

    Now you've made me hungry!

    Lee

  • 16 years ago

    1. Do you have any special traditions you always do on Thanksgiving? We always gather all of both families for Thanksgiving. It is a madhouse with about 40 folks ranging from 1 year to 76 years! I do a lot of the cooking, and the rest of the family bring their own specialties to add to the fray!

    2, What special foods do you serve? no Auntie's left :^(, but step GD can't live without green bean casserole, so she brings that. Step Daughter only likes cream pies (we like fruit), so she brings those. Step DIL always brings me a pumpkin roll yum! My clan will eat anything if it holds still long enough, so they usually bring odd stuff like ice and firewood (a whole trailer load...sweet!!)

    And, along that line:
    3, Do you still serve the dish people inwardly groan when they see, whether it is green bean casserole,candied yams, or something else, because "it just wouldn't be Thanksgiving without it"? a couple of those are generally on the table, but I didn't cook them and probably won't eat them! One of which is that green slimey jello salad with the marshmallows in it.....

    4. Do your family and guests dress up, or wear jeans? I usually wear something with a fall motif, and a nice apron. The sous chef...DH, wears his John Deere apron that DD made for him. DD usually dresses up, and the rest are from there on down to onesies:^)

    5. Visit, watch tv, go hunting (critters or retail goodies), what do you do in the afternoon? clean up the mess ;^( visit, talk, laugh and play with all of the "littles". There are 9 kidlets age 8 and under.

    6. Host or guest? Hosts

    7. we eat at 1:00...Leftovers supper later is up to the one eating and they had better clean up their mess!!!

    8.Usually from 5 to 7 houseguests 3 are younglets.

  • 16 years ago

    1. Do you have any special traditions you always do on Thanksgiving?
    * We always get up and turn on the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade on tv. I've watched it every year since I was a kid and love it. For me, (and now my family, too) it's the "official" start of our Thanksgiving and the holiday season. We watch it as we get our special T'Day family breakfast ready and, afterwards, while we get our part of the meal ready to take down to our friend's home for Tday dinner. As we make our breakfast together, we always toast the day with eggnog, another big tradition.

    2, What special foods do you serve?
    * Our Thanksgiving Day dinner is always the same and we love it. Turkey with Oyster Stuffing; mashed potatoes & gravy; homemade (awesome, yeasty!) crescent rolls; candied yams; my cranberry orange relish; a fresh veggie tray with homemade Ranch dip & a cheese tray, as appetizers; condiment tray with various olives, pickles, etc; Caesar salad with Mandarin orange sections; pumpkin and pecan pies; mulled apple cider; wines and coffee. I've probably left something out, but that's basically been our dinner for the past 20-plus years. Gosh, I love this meal! All of the above are made from scratch by us, too. My friend is a home ec teacher and an incredible cook.

    3, Do you still serve the dish people inwardly groan when they see, whether it is green bean casserole,candied yams, or something else, because "it just wouldn't be Thanksgiving without it"?
    * Nope, we all seem to love everything on our menu.

    4. Do your family and guests dress up, or wear jeans?
    *We wear dressy casual clothes.

    5. Visit, watch tv, go hunting (critters or retail goodies), what do you do in the afternoon?
    * We visit. The guys watch some of the football game(s). In the evening we sometimes play "Catch Phrase" or "Apples to Apples"

    6. Host or guest?
    * Guest, as we host Christmas. These are our best friends and neither of us have any family here in state. But, this year both their kids are living in the Dallas area and their daughter and fiancee have bought a (huge) new home. They can't make it here and invited all of us to come and celebrate Thanksgiving there with them. We told our friends to go, but we aren't going ourselves. It's flu season and DH doesn't want to take more than Thursday thru Sunday off away from his patients. And, he HATES, HATES, HATES the thought of half of those days off being taken up with traveling on the two busiest/worst travel days of the year. (Sigh) So, we're celebrating by ourselves at home for the first time. It'll be festive, but different for us.

    7. Do you eat at noon or dinner?
    * At our friends' home we eat around 2PM and then have a supper of the yummy leftovers around 7PM, but this year ~by ourselves~ we'll probably eat around 6PM and save our leftovers for the next day's dinner.

    8. Do you have overnight house guests?
    *No
    Lynn

  • 16 years ago

    We're here because this is was my husband's last duty station in the AF. Our son was just graduating from College when my husband retired. He was engaged to a local girl and not going anywhere. Somehow we ended up sticking around. Thanksgiving is usually just us, the kids, and grandkids. A few times we've had others but not too often.

    1. Do you have any special traditions you always do on Thanksgiving? My hubby and I watch Planes, Trains and Automobiles and have our first slice of pumpkin pie, on the night before Thanksgiving.

    2, What special foods do you serve? Does Auntie bring the Jello salad everone hates, but pretends to eat, not to hurt her feelings? Don't ever tell her I said this, but dil usually brings some of the dessert that she made for the larger TG dinner they go to on her side, earlier in the day. It hasn't always been to my taste, and yes I would eat the whole thing myself rather than hurt her feelings.

    And, along that line:
    3, Do you still serve the dish people inwardly groan when they see, whether it is green bean casserole,candied yams, or something else, because "it just wouldn't be Thanksgiving without it"? Nope.

    4. Do your family and guests dress up, or wear jeans? It's really hit or miss. Some of us "dress" and some of us don't, no one cares. It's just us, and we're not formal.

    5. Visit, watch tv, go hunting (critters or retail goodies), what do you do in the afternoon? Talk and watch TV, we'd like to play a game, but it never seems to work out.

    6. Host or guest? Host but we tell our kids (son and dil) that they can take over if they want. They don't because they do dinner with her extended family.

  • 16 years ago

    Something special~draw names for Christmas.

    Special foods~I *always* make the turkey/stuffing"mom's is best!")DD always insists on making her pumpkin pies, from scratch~she's only 31.

    Without~the "same old traditional" foods, it wouldn't be Thanksgiving!

    Dress or casual~we wear jeans, but a nice shirt~men AND women. NO tee shirts allowed!

    What we do~the men watch the games, the women talk........ and drink wine! And we play with the babies.

    Host or guest~been both, but *always* bring "the bird"! This year i'll be going back to CA. I'll be the guest but will be more like the hostess since i'll be doing the majority of the cooking and tablesetting. DD is still learning. ;o)!

  • 16 years ago

    1. Do you have any special traditions you always do on Thanksgiving?
    Always watch the Thanksgiving Parade...(When I was a kid, my Father would take me and my brother down to see it)..

    My SIL & BIL, who live in NJ, would have T Dinner (I did Christmas) DH & I and DD and all of DH's family would be there, and sometimes my parents
    They don't do Tdinner anymore, so I do it with DD,SIL, 4 DGkids, and DD's Inlaws.

    2, What special foods do you serve? Does Auntie bring the Jello salad everone hates, but pretends to eat, not to hurt her feelings?
    We start with an Antipasta/ then either Lasagna or Stuffed Shells,(hey we're Italian..what can I say)... Turkey/Ham/Sweet Potatoes/Mashed Potatoes/Dinah Shore's Wild Rice Stuffing/Green Beans/Stuffed Artichokes/Peas w/Mushrooms/Batter Dipped Fried Cauliflower/Cranberry Sauce/
    Pecan Pie/Pumpkin Pie/Chocolate Cream Pie/Apple Pie/Italian Rum Cake/Cannolis/Italian Cookies

    And, along that line:
    3, Do you still serve the dish people inwardly groan when they see, whether it is green bean casserole,candied yams, or something else, because "it just wouldn't be Thanksgiving without it"? NO.. everything gets devoured!

    4. Do your family and guests dress up, or wear jeans?

    Years ago, we ALWAYS dressed up..now its Dressed Up/Casual

    5. Visit, watch tv, go hunting (critters or retail goodies), what do you do in the afternoon?

    We play Board Games...(many of them DH made) and watch
    Planes Trains Automobiles - March of the Wooden Soldiers.
    or Miracle On 34th Street.

    6. Host or guest?

    Now I Host...However, this year, I'm going to DD's because I'm doing a Family Reunion the following Week!
    Last year I did Thanksgiving/Family Reunion/Christmas Eve/Christmas Day...and was destroyed!!

    7. Do you eat at noon or dinner?

    We eat around 1:30.. then again,early evening on leftovers.

    8. Do you have overnight house guests?

    Yes, Usually around 6...
    Traditionally, we get up early the next day...have a Big Breakfast, then Drive To Jones Tree Farm, to Cut Down Our Christmas Tree. The last three years, we've put up an Artificial one in the Family Room, however, we still get a Big Live One, for the Front Porch.

  • 16 years ago

    I really enjoy reading about the different traditions we have. One recurring theme == family == no matter what the number, two to forty.

    Forty! Jay, you are making such wonderful memories for the little ones.

    Lee

  • 16 years ago

    It is wayyyy fun too!!! All the littles have to line up at the edge of the fireplace to see how much they have grown each year. We will NEVER be able to sell this house...we would have to take the fireplace with us :^)

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