From what I have seen on the web most people go with dover white. It is hard to find a picture of alabaster, I've attached a link of dover white cabinets below. Google alabaster white cabinets and you will get some hits, but not very many (most aren't actually of that paint color) and the picture quality isn't very good on most of them.

Here is a link that might be useful: [Pics of dover white in kitchens[(https://www.houzz.com/photos/dover-white-cabinet-phbr0lbl-bl~l_39199)

If there's not a lot of sunlight, maybe Dover White would be the best choice as it has more of a yellow hue.

Alabaster is also beautiful, but I think it would work best in a bright setting.

You can get sample quarts at SW for about $6. Try a sample jar of each painted on foam board and put it up in your kitchen for a few days. See what you think.