I like formal dining rooms (even though I hardly use mine). When looking at houses to buy it is a negative to me if the house doesn't have one.

Although if the current kitchen doesn't have an eat-in area (or can only fit a table big enough for two), then I think opening up the dining room makes more sense.

I think you are going to see a trend back to family dinners and having a formal dining room. Things seem to go in cycles even in housing design and I think the open floor plan has run it's course.

I dislike open floor plans...
and I will always want a house with a separate dining room.
We use ours plenty!

Around here, people still like to have a formal dining area. It probably depends upon the level/pricing of housing. Lower priced houses can get away without it.

We specifically built our custom home w/o a formal dining room. Our Amish built table that seats 14 fits in our extra large kitchen. If you are building for re-sale then build your house for someone else. If you are building your house for your family and its enjoyment, build it with or without a formal dining room-whatever YOU love! I will add, that some people who would want a formal dining room, could use our music room as one, but for us, our table would never fit in it or most average formal dining rooms.

I like a formal dining room, but I have a large house. If I were downsizing or building a small house I would rather have a good sized eat-in kitchen than a tiny kitchen and tiny dining room.

A dining room was essential to our home. Family dinners, holiday dinners, quick coffee get togethers with the neighbors,etc. We use it a bit less now that both kids are in college and not at home. I'm not a fan of open floor plans, to much wasted space, hard to keep rooms at a constant temp., kitchen always has to be spotless(after cooking for a dinner party I just close the door to my kitchen and clean up after everyone is gone or even save it for the morning!) I'm an older house lover. We presently live in a large 100+ year old home. So for your survey, keep the dining room. NancyLouise

If it is a large or historical house then the DR is important, but if there isn't an area for at least a 4 person table in her kitchen it makes sense if it is done well.

This might be a post for the decorating or kitchen forum for ideas to do this. Someone recently did this on the kitchen forum and it was a huge improvement to her kitchen and lifestyle.

It depends.
I'd prefer one good sized dining area than two smaller ones. When you say this house has a small kitchen, this is what I'm thinking. I owned a house for a few years that had a kitchen nook for a small round table, and a "formal" dining room that was too small to hold my dining table, 6 chairs, and china cabinet (we had to store the leaves and extra chairs). The china cabinet was in the living room and the table stuck out so that the chandelier was not centered.

If it's a smaller house, then opening it up a bit would probably be an advantage.

I much prefer a separate DR. However, in the conditions you've mentioned, it would depend on it having an excellent plan, and what the view of the combined K/DR from the LR or front entry would be.

Anne

I wish I could do it to mine....but, unfortunately, mine is a load-bearing wall and I couldn't. Wah!!!!

I hate a dining room, but as you've probably gathered...it's a matter of personal preference. I wouldn't NOT buy a house because it had a formal dining room. But I probably wouldn't buy a house if it didn't have an eat in kitchen space. I don't know much about trends in the market, but I think small, boxy rooms are not ever going to be in style. If your friend's house is small and boxy I think opening it up would be a good idea regardless!

I say she should just do what SHE wants. Mine is open and I love the light that fills the space and hosting is modern and relaxed. Push come to shove it's easy peasy to add a partition wall for a particular buyer

I like a formal dining room. Who wants to look at pots and pans and cooking prep when having a nice gathering/meal? Not me.

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I wouldn't have a home w/o a formal DR. I feel it's a personal decision, since there are families who never use a DR. If she is planning on staying in the house for a good amount of time, she should have it the way *she* wants it, and not be concerned with resale.