I tried all of those colors (and many, many more) when choosing my white. White Dove, while a lovely color, when paired with my marble sample in my kitchen had a sickly yellow/gray/green undertone. Cloud White was much too yellow with my Carrara, which has a very gray-almost-blue undertone.

I chose Simply White for my cabs and then used it to paint all of the millwork and every door in my house. In some lights it is a bit too stark, but works well in the kitchen. I am very happy with the color.

Here are a couple of pics from just after the counters went in. Sorry if you've seen these before.

What are you putting on your counters?

We didn't do white cabinets, but we did do white base boards, door molding, and crown molding. It had to be nice with the Heaven on Earth blue we put on the walls. The cabs and floor would go with anything, so they didn't factor in. In the end, I put all the white chips I'd collected down on the counter (Kashmir Gold) + the blues we'd decided on and chose the white that complemented both the wall color and the granite. It was the granite tones that sealed the deal. We ended up with Bavarian Cream. Do you have something in your kitchen-to-be that needs a tone match? All of your choices are often used for white cabinets, so I'd just go with one you like in your space with your light. If you like them all equally, then good for you! In that case, maybe eeny-meeny-miney-moe and move onto the next decision. ;-)

i was planning to go with white dove but. similar to breezy, when it was next to my marble it did not look good, too dingy and greyish as my marble is very warm. i have white dove in other parts of the house and it looks great but did not look good with my marble.

i also ended up going with BM simply white. at some points in the day when the sun is really bright they seem bright but otherwise they seem nice and creamy. i am happy with my choice.

I have white dove and I was surprised how bright white it loks in my kitchen. We have lots of natural light and in the showroom they did not.
If you look on the Finished Kitchen blog you can see the whites people have used.

I have white dove with soapstone countertops and lots of natural light and it doesn't look bright white at all. I think the countertop and floor material play a large part in the color reflection.

sorry OT - breezy did you use semi-gloss simply white on your trim work?

Lake girl --my trim and all new interior and exterior doors in the whole house are the same as my cabs. BM satin impervo waterborne.

I can't tell you how many white paint samples I have! I finally (nervously) decided and went with SW Alabaster White, which is very, very close to BM White Dove. From some of my samples and trim I painted, I was afraid it would look stark white in my sunny kitchen, but it most definitely does not! At times it looks pretty white, other times a creamy white, and other times I see the gray undertone.. throughout the entire day - the color changes! I really think I stressed too much for a "perfect white", but I think a really good off white, not yellow/creamy would be SW Alabaster or BM White Dove. For a more whiter shade, I do like BM Simply White!