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11 years ago

Well, it's been quite the ride this past couple of months. My sister had surgery the first week of August and is doing very well at this point. Wednesday she said "I feel like I've been in a tunnel and I'm coming to the light". She may get released soon, but will need to stay in Boston for a few days. It's been tough on my mom and her husband going back and forth to stay with her, but one of our restaurant customers (and good friend) has also helped so much. We are so happy that she has a positive attitude and is doing so well.

I've been running the restaurant. I have survived a power outage, a broken hood vent, a leaking sink, a bipolar cook with a machete, and a dishwasher who likes to wear sunglasses inside and cry a lot. Oh, and it has been the busiest Summer we've ever had. The hardest part has been talking to the customers who absolutely ADORE my sister. Some knew that she was sick, but what I eventually discovered was that she couldn't tell the ones she loved the most. So I have spent a lot of time telling people she is sick, (we don't say much about the type of cancer, prognosis, etc) and that she'll be back in a couple months. They cry, I cry. Or people are so kind and nice that I cry. One man was in and said, "How much is her mortgage a month?" When I said I didn't know he gave me a big check and said "Find out, I'll be back. We haven't been here in years, but when my children were young she was so kind to us, and we all have wonderful memories of being here and I want to help". Waterworks. Her friend started a GoFundMe and it is amazing how kind people are.

I feel so fortunate that I can do this for her. It's physically demanding (I've lost 12 lbs), but every day we get through without a fistfight or a meltdown feels like a giant victory. These next two weeks on Cape Cod are the WORST. College kids and High School athletes all go back to school early. The cooks are exhausted and the waitstaff looking for a break. Yet the people keep coming. Right now we are the 2nd most popular restaurant in our town on Trip Advisor. My goal is to make it #1 without asking anyone to write a review. We pride ourselves on being nice.

OH, and we drove DS to Indiana U this week. We left Cape Cod on Tuesday at 3:30 PM, arrived at the school on Wednesday at 8:15 AM. (DH is a driving God). We got him settled, books bought and then headed home. Quick stop in Ohio, then back here last night. 2100 miles. We are going to miss him SO much. His friends have been by, and will be for the next couple weeks. We have an open door and refrigerator policy. :). I'm excited for the Fall, I think eventually we will get a break and DH and I will have some fun. He is a bartender at another ridiculously busy place...luckily his place will be closed during the week after Labor Day and he will be able to help us out. We aren't sure what the future will bring, but we're all a good team and we are looking forward to the future.



Comments (16)

  • 11 years ago

    What an update! No kidding you are a team - what a wonderful sister you are and your sister must be pretty special to have so many customers care so much about her. Wishing continued good health ans spirits for her.

  • 11 years ago

    Thanks for taking the time to tell us how things are going. Wishing your sister a speedy recovery and good luck to your son at college.

  • 11 years ago

    I'm glad to hear that the update is upbeat. Best of luck on all fronts!

  • 11 years ago

    Oh my - I'm exhausted just reading about everything you've been doing. Your sister must be an exceptional woman (and I suspect you are too). It's wonderful to hear how much her customers care for her.

  • 11 years ago

    So glad to hear your positive news. I am impressed with your endurance through all you are doing. Take good care of yourself too!

  • 11 years ago

    I'm impressed at all you are doing! Hope the news for your sister continues to be good.

  • 11 years ago

    So glad to see your update and hear that your sister will be released. What a beautiful thing you have done for her .. and for her customers. It sounds as though you have both touched their lives.

  • 11 years ago

    So glad your sister is doing well....what a wonderful community you have there supporting her. That was quite the mad dash to Bloomington....hope DS enjoys freshman year. Now you and DH get some rest!

  • 11 years ago

    Wow! Just wow! Sending you hugs, strength, energy, and courage. When you get a chance, I want to hear more about the bipolar cook with a machete! I'm not sure, but I think there's a reality TV show in there somewhere!

  • 11 years ago

    Ditto to everything written above. I can't imagine . . .

  • 11 years ago

    lol.... I picture the cook having an enormous mustache!

    hang in there! being a part of a great team helps so much! hope your sis is able to return to the restaurant and update the customers soon!

  • 11 years ago

    bethpen, have your mom and her husband check out Hospitality Homes.

    (You can email me and I can privately explain why I'm suggesting it).

    Also on CC. Which is your restaurant? I'll send my tenants over there.

    Glad your sister is emerging from that forest.

  • 11 years ago

    bethpen, I was so sorry to read about your sisters problems. Cancer is so rampant on the Cape! I have heard of so many wonderful stories of the locals helping locals, please email me as I would live to donate to the Gofundme account, I wish I could say it will be a lot, but we all know every bit little helps. ( I live in the mid cape area). -

  • 11 years ago

    Wow. So sorry to hear about your sister's illness, but what a lovely story of how she has touched peoples lives and how you've taken over to keep her story going while she recovers. All the best to you and your family.

  • 11 years ago

    It is so touching to read how your much your sister meant to so many customers and how they are reaching out to you now. I am tired just reading about what you have been doing lately. I hope your sister continues to come out of that tunnel on her road to recovery. That bipolar cook with the machete conjures up all sorts of visions. Wow! Hang in there and take care!