I am looking for help...This is our dining room set...The dining room is the first room you see when you walk in. I realize that most homes are going towards gray colors. I currently have Decatur Buff with a stencil/crystals on wall...New home has wainscoting on bottom and need color for top so that I can do the stencil again...Can I do a grey color or stick to a gold tone? suggestions for both? We don't have the china set, I have a different buffet with a black marble top. This isn't my room, I used off store site. Thank you in advance