It's hard to see the varying tones of the two whites from your photos. Who is the paint manufacturer of the colors, so that I can take a look at them online? Generally, kitchens benefit from a softer, warmer white rather than a bright one. Given your traditional panel-style cabinets, whichever white is warmer might be the better choice.

1 st one seems white to me so IMO that is it.

Ben Moore

Go with the whitest, brightest white. Your counters look very white so your cabinets don't need to have any cream in the color. If you go with an off white paint the counters will make the cabinets look dingy.

If you went with another color for the counter then a warmer white would work.

FYI... I love Ella, but take a look at another Ella Sample. That one you have looks very different from most! I was just at the southern California distribution center. Take a look...