Hubby and I are designing our first white kitchen. We love the look of a white kitchen, but wonder how much is too much white?

We're debating between white cabinets and Cambria Torquay (which is fairly white with gray streaks) vs. Cambria Darlington (more traditional with a beige/brownish pattern).

Advice and thoughts for first-time "white kitchen" people? How white is too white? Does it ever "feel" too white? Thanks very much :)