Steam for me, rain for him.

I have body sprays and never use them, I have a steam shower which we do use occasionally. An absolute must is a thermostatic mixer, large shower head (mounted high for tall people), separate hand spray and a bench.

Steam!

Although we design and install these for clients, and enjoy the process and decadence, my personal preference would be just the shower head. I want my home to be simple. The more bells and whistles, the more eventual maintenance.

None of the above. I don't always want to get my hair wet, so overhead rain is out of the question. Steam? I'm not pressing clothes, I just want to get in and get out. My preference is for a bracket-mounted head with adjustable settings that I can take down from its bracket and hold in my hand. That seems to cover all the bases... except for reading in a tub.

How about all of them?! :)

I just go for a simple bracket-mountain shower too! I can take it down for showering kids also.

Nice!