Love the pics! Especially the blue! So you don't think any type of greige would look good in my house?

I agree with Cali.....You see how your gray sectional is fighting to fit in? it's too cool of a shade. I think lighting those walls with a nice cream or the light blues that she has pictured above, would really look great. If you want gray, you may be able to get away with it in the far room w/the white sofa. But it has to be a warmer gray. Get some samples and try it out.

(I agree,,,too much brown in there!! wow.)

I would make a plan with a whole new palette that you can work towards, since it sounds like the current colors aren't pleasing you too much. Then with a long range plan you can prioritize the rooms you need a change in the most. A lot of Sherwin Williams stores have color consultants that will help you with this.

I'd LOVE to make a plan for the whole house, but here's the problem...we have MANY new cabinets than are a cream color (I think there's a yellow undertone) and we don't want to remove or paint them. Also, we have tan carpet at the far end of the house in a hallway where no one but family sees.

I absolutely love the idea of the blues and the room next to the kitchen and maybe a warmer greige in the room with the really dark walls and white couch.

If anyone has a specific color they'd recommend I'd love to hear it! Thanks for all your help!

https://www.benjaminmoore.com/en-us/color-overview/find-your-color/color-a-room/1513/dining-room-1?source=%2Fen-us%2Fcolor-overview%2Ffind-your-color%2Fcolor-a-room&color=1468&combination=2109-30,HC-144&room=1513

bring in palladium blue.

Oh! I like that! I might do this paladium blue in the living room and try the coordinating colors in this pic in the adjoining room! Thanks!

That will be really pretty. Like a breath of fresh air! Post 'after' pictures.