Decisions, decisions. Here are two photos with stainless sink with stainless washer next to it: and I notice that the finishes are the same, but I think you might have to make sure about that.

Here is a white sink and a stainless DW: BTW, I would not want a microwave in the lower cabinets. Lastly, a white sink with an cabinet front DW:

I don't think you'll go wrong either way. Good luck.

I think you should get the sink you like and not try to match everything... In the green kitchen the dishwasher is hidden (it is to the left)

Slate.

Thanks for quick responses. I am meeting the cabinet lady tomorrow. I did want the SS sink as my cabinets are going to be a benjamin moore white dove. I just hope the dishwasher and sink dont look bad being beside each other. I am waiting for the cost of the panel ready DW to see if I can fit in my budget. Thanks again!!!