We used the whitey white white that's often tinted and used to make off white colors. Basically a can of white base.

Wondering if anyone has done same combo and/or has recommendations for what color to paint cabinets?

Based on Carrara or Statuario marble only:

OC-62 Baby's Breath

OC-63 Winter Snow

OC-68 Distant Gray

But it also depends on your trim/door color throughout the house.

Thanks Lori - We are working with a clean slate right now. Don't have trim/door color selected but was thinking whatever the cabinet paint color is could also be trim/door? Do people do that? Or we'd do shade "starker" white than the cabinets I guess?

Don't have trim/door color selected but was thinking whatever the cabinet paint color is could also be trim/door? Do people do that?

IMHO, it's easier on everybody to choose just one color of white for the cabinets and trim/doors throughout the house. Client, painter, paint store mixer people, me. :)

The BenM colors I listed are the top 3 Benjamin Moore whites with the smallest amount of chroma (or colorfulness). In other words, it doesn't get more "stark" than those three whites. And super low chroma whites are usually the ones that harmonize best with the Italian marbles.

If they're too crisp, you can ratchet the chromaticity up a notch or two. Here's a list of Benjamin Moore's whites in order of chroma. You can find the table here. Click on the arrows in the green header bar to sort by hue family, value, chroma, LRV a.k.a. CIE Y.

Thank you Lori! This is such a big help!