Our new build is underway so I need to get to work picking specifics for the kitchen. I would love some help with the cabinet color. I want a white "farmhouse" style kitchen. I'm planning on doing a white apron sink, and white perimeter cabinets. My husband doesn't want an all white kitchen so I've agreed to do the island in another color...perhaps a soft gray? Our granite is rather "bold" (it's whites, some cream and grays), so I think I've decided on a simpler backsplash. I will likely do a white (I'd say it's a soft white- not stark) crackle subway tile. And the walls will be SW Silver Strand

What I'm stuck on is specific colors to consider. I don't want a stark white but I also don't want it to be creamy. And I need the island color to play well with the wall color. Any suggestions? I'll attach a pic of the granite. Thanks!