I don't think I would go beige with those cabinets - they are a very cool gray. You might be better off with a blue, green or white. Can you buy an extra drawer front and bring it to the paint store for help?

I am building a new house and will have an open concept kitchen living area with an island in the middle of the room.

Every time some suggests to a poster here on the forum that they need to hire a color designer to help with their project it annoys me. Because if that was an option, the OP probably wouldn't be posting on the forum asking for help.

But sometimes it really is the best advice. And your situation is a good example because you are aware that color coordination is a challenge for you and you are in the process of color selection for a new build. This is the best time to have a color pro help you so you avoid making expensive, regrettable color choices.

Get some help now so they can help with all the material and paint color decisions.