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Hosta Thank You 2017

I sort of fell off the planet. Radiation was adding up and with the death of my friend I am moving much slower. Any time I felt like I was headed to a self pity party I would remember my friend Karen who needed a heart transplant. My life became easier. She is with her mother now.

3 more treatments and I am done with round one. Next comes check, check and recheck doctor appointments. I will not know what to do with myself with all the spare time. Yes I do. I look at the work that needs to be done outside and I already have some hostas coming up. Spring is here and the weather man has predicted 36 degrees coming up. The struggle is real.

You say I kept you going during the winter? No you kept ME going. I had to be somewhere every 2 days kind of early and it got my motor running. Then I got to look at beautiful photos while hosting a 'World Wide' conversation on hostas. I brag about it at work. I will be back December 26, 2018. So everyone take more photos, including me.




Hey I will check in and see how you guys are doing but DO NOT FORGET to get a mammogram this year. I got lucky real lucky. Men you know you need things to be checked too. Just do it.

Thank you all. Now lets go grow some hostas.

Comments (24)

  • 8 years ago

    Pie Rates aren't bad...they're just misunderstood

    Thanks for all the laughs, Paula, best wishes.

  • 8 years ago

    Thank you, Paula! I wish you all the best for the rest of your treatments and hope that you come back as often as you need friends. Don't wait until next December if you need distraction from all the problems you are facing at the moment! We all would be glad to do a spring-, summer-, fall-alphabet with you if needed...

  • 8 years ago

    Paula, you are so right "Live like someone left the gate open" .


  • 8 years ago

    Great laughs and great advice! I will schedule my mammogram Monday morning.

  • 8 years ago

    Thanks Paula. You and the Olympics made winter a lot more fun for a lot of people! Now onward and upward and counting pips begins. Well...there is still snow here, but soon!

    jan

  • 8 years ago

    God Bless you Paula, you are a beautiful soul. Thank you so much for all your laughs and input here.

    I ran out of the gate years ago and never looked back.

  • 8 years ago

    Thank you Paula, I appreciate this time of year with you and Hostas. You are a blessing to all.

  • 8 years ago

    Thanks, Paula for the alphabet.

    I think Rhizoctonia Root Rot has probably run it's course. Big Daddy was the only one showing symptoms last year, so hopefully, I'm done with it. I'm down to about 5 hosta from a high of 85 or so, and I'm ready to try some new ones. Apparently, the blues and some of the fragrants are resistant than others.

    This time around, I'll be able to choose the varieties that have done well for me in the past.

    Thanks again for your contribution. I'll say a prayer for your complete recovery.

    bkay

  • 8 years ago

    Paula, you are a rock - and an inspiration. “God Bless you Paula. You are a beautiful soul.” Couldn’t have said it better, Jerry!

    You are the light that shines on my worst days. Thank you for hauling me out of the abyss today. I keep reading your post above and the stirrings of Hosta anticipation are awakening.... finally. Thank You.

    The Alphabet was especially awesome. The jokes had me laughing out loud on so many occasions. The Hosta pictures were all just glorious.... all that, all of the above ... during another very difficult time in your life. You are my hero. You inspire.

    Stay positive, stay healthy, and - stay here! Lol (You will love being retired - you can Garden all you want, whenever you want.)



  • 8 years ago

    Paula, you are the best! An inspiration to all of us with great bragging rights!!! Stay healthy for all of us.

    Josephine, sista, come back!! I really miss you and your beautiful hostas.

  • 8 years ago

    Thanks Paula for the alphabet and the early morning jokes! I look forward to it every year with anticipation. Good luck with your treatments. Kick that thing into space.

  • 8 years ago
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    Paula I was worried about your disappearance. So sorry about Karen and that your treatments are taking a toll. Will think of you everyday and hope you will be here often throughout the year. Thank you Paula. Happy the Alphabet helped you, I know it helped me.

    Jo it wasn't the same without you! I know how tough it is trying to come out of the abyss. A shout out to all those missing this year such as irawon & others.

  • 8 years ago

    Merci Paula.......never give up!!!! My motto- what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger.

    I am pleased to hear you are coming to the end of your treatments. It is now , Allo to spring and remission. Au revoir cancer.

    As a medical professional -do a FIT- is a fecal immunochemical test or paper card test ( fecal occult blood) this is a screening for colon cancer- (lower GI).

  • 8 years ago

    Thank you Paula. It's great to participate in 'World Wide' conversation on hostas. I'm waiting all your photos of pips.


    Saija

  • 8 years ago

    Paula, my condolences on the loss of your friend. Keep going strong! Thank you *everyone* for the alphabet. Winter blues can certainly be blue in NE Ohio, and last year was tough for me personally too, but all of you have definitely eased the gloomy times, and now the sun is making its reappearance and I guess reminding us to stay hopeful and look forward to new beginnings. Spring is almost here! Hope all of our plants have made in through the Winter and will soon be greeting us. Virtual hugs to y'all.

  • 8 years ago

    This alphabet was a fun one! I hope you will check in now and then, Paula. Think of where you were at the start of this year's alphabet, and where you've made it to by now. Almost all finished with treatments. I hope all your checkups go well and can become less frequent as time goes by.


    So sorry to hear about the loss of your friend. I lost my best friend last October, and it's hard to accept that things change. I'm glad this forum helped you because it's helped me, too. Your willingness to share and make the effort to do the alphabet has inspired me.

    Spring is coming, and we're all still here so let's make the best of things and plant some hostas!

  • 8 years ago

    So glad you wrote to let us know how things are going for you.

    Wow, you're thanking us for keeping you going? You know us hostaholics NEED hosta in every way we can get them---buying, planting, pictures, talking, reading etc. So you, my dear Paula, have helped us get our hosta fix! I thank you so much. And the jokes you add are priceless. Where do you find such funny jokes!?

    Glad you are almost over your radiation treatments for round 1. Yes you are one of the lucky ones. The cancer diagnosis is a shocking one. My closest friend (of 40 years) was one of the lucky ones too, and my sister too. But it does take time to heal physically and emotionally. I sense you are one tough cookie! LOL I have confidence that you will continue to get stronger and stronger!

    I am sorry to hear about your friend. That is sad and heartbreaking news.

    Take your time Paula. Be good to yourself. And---it would be really nice if you could drop in and visit the forum before December 26, 2018. December 26th is just too long to wait to hear from you!

    Thanks for the reminder about the mammogram! I am due.

  • 8 years ago
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    God bless, Paula! Stay strong and positive! Believe in what you want so much that it has no choice but to happen.

  • 8 years ago

    Paula,

    Thanks for all of the laughs--you made each day a bit brighter. Very sorry to hear about your friend. Do drop by and visit the forum, don't be a stranger until December! Best wishes for good checkups--we know that you are strong, but all of us need encouragement. Take care and stay strong.

  • 8 years ago

    Paula you are an inspiration and a person with a great sense of humor to boot. I haven't been on here much but when I am I always looked for your posts. Contributing to the www discussion of hostas-Hugs! James From Sweden.

  • 8 years ago

    sandyslopes I am so sorry you lost your friend. Change is very hard, thankfully our mutual passion somewhat helps lift us.

    Extroverted Introvert I hope this is a better year for you. Many of us needed your Virtual hug - sending one right back at you!

  • 8 years ago

    Thank you so much :))) More hugs and all the best to you as well!

  • 8 years ago

    Attitude can be everything, yours is the best! Positivity means there is hope, hope means you care, all of us here have hope! See you next December with more photos : )

    Sherry