Do y’all have advice re soft white (3k) can lights vs bright white (4K) for my kitchen, den & living rooms? Remodeling & now have white cabinets (Behr Swiss coffee via Sherwin Williams) & gray Thunder White granite. Don’t really want the cabinets to look yellowish but neither do I want bright operating room lights. Most of the trades men I’ve asked like the bright but say their wives prefer soft white. Need to order. Advice?