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Advice for a kitchen and dinning

8 years ago
We started renovations in the house, my husband was awesome at woodworking, but he was diagnosed with brain tumour ( no surgery possible) so in between all this situation, I had no kitchen ( we were going to BBQ during Reno’s) so I had to take control and do the best I could.
I am no designer, and just went ahead bought some cabinets, doing backsplash tomorrow and it will be clean and I can have my kitchen back.
But..since now dining room and it hen are open, I have this buffet (antique solid wood ) that I want to put in dinning room. Should I painted white, my cabinets in kitchen are white, my walls too, all is very clean looking. Here are some pictures. Also have 2 sets of dinning rooms, and please remember this is our chalet or country home.
Please advise...at this time all I need is to finish it, so I can spend all my time at the hospital and nit worry about all this, but in case my husband can come home, I want everything done.
Thank you!

Comments (18)

  • 8 years ago
    Can you show just where in dining room you would like the hutch?
  • 8 years ago
    It will be on this side. Please note that the mess is because I am not done with renovations.
  • 8 years ago
    Here is the photo showing wall where it will go. Floors are done now
  • 8 years ago
    God Bless you and your husband! I would leave it as is for now and live with it awhile. Painting a colonial style cabinet might just look like a painted colonial style cabinet, and you might not like it in white, particularly if you are not changing your dining table and chairs. Rather, I’d suggest placing things on it minimally and keep it simple. You can always paint it at a later date; maybe considering some other colors as you see how things look once put back together. Best of luck to you.
  • 8 years ago
    Thank you for your kindness!
  • 8 years ago
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    I would paint it and the chairs to match, but do it in an accent color such as grey, navy or black. I would leave the table the natural color. None of course needs to be done right away, but I understand you wanting to be done! Its hard to come this far and still have that hanging over you. Wishing the best to your husband and yourself.

  • 8 years ago

    Oh Nina—my heart goes out to your husband and to you. Are you physically doing all this work yourself or have you hired people? Dealing with your husband’s illness is stressful enough which is why I strongly suggest, if you haven’t already, hiring a general contractor or handyman to help you finish this renovation as quickly as possible. As for painting the hutch, since it doesn’t need to be painted in order to be functional, just leave it. BUT, if painting it yourself would be therapeutic or having it painted by someone else would bring you joy then go for it!

  • 8 years ago
    Nina, I am so sorry. Let the hutch go for now. You have plans to finish the kitchen and that is enough. Just spend time with your husband.
  • 8 years ago

    The hutch is beautiful....keep it as is and set up the table and chairs and spend time with hubs and enjoy where you are in the moment.

  • 8 years ago
    It is such a difficult time, but I am still hoping my husband will at least come home for a while, and we can give him all the love he deserves. How I wish that I knew Mike Holmes to ask him to come and make all the adjustments in the house to accommodate him in the months left...
  • 8 years ago
    Thank you all for the comments, truly appreciate it! Enjoy every minute , life is a gift never to be taken for granted!
  • 8 years ago
    I'm sorry that you are suddenly in such a difficult situation. Regarding the hutch, why not just put it in place when you finish the kitchen. Don't worry about painting it. Over time, you will either decide that the natural wood finish works well with your kitchen. If not, you can always paint it down the road.
    Best wishes
  • 8 years ago

    Hi ninasa5-

    Best wishes for a complete and speedy recovery to your husband and lots of strength to you!

    Never mind about painting the wood hutch. It looks just fine.

    And the kitchen doesn't have to be perfect either, Martha Stewart and the Queen of England aren't coming to visit.

    Just put the hutch in the dining room wherever it is going to live and dust it off and put in it whatever you were going to put in ti, pretty plates or whatever.

    Put away your food stuffs and dishes to the extent you can so that when your husband comes home the place looks neat and restful for him.

    That it is neat is more important than if the backsplash is finished.

    And here is some unsolicited advice.

    You don't want to be so exhausted from working on the house that when you go visit him in the hospital you feel and look exhausted and have no energy and no sparkle.

    You are more important to your husband than what the house looks like, so stop work early, rest a while. Then take care of yourself, dress up, fix your hair, put on make up, jewelry, like you were going on a date with your husband every day you go see him at the husband so he is cheered up every time he sees you.

  • 8 years ago

    Nina,,leave it for now. go through what you need to handle w/ hub. The hutch isn't an antique,,it's a piece from the 50's made from maple. I've redone a few of these and chalk paint would be the easiest one for you to use on it. look up painted maple hutch on Pinterest and you should see plenty of ideas. if you just want to clean up the hardware, try Brasso or barkeepers friend. It's in decent shape so there's no hurry right now.

  • 8 years ago
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    You may not believe it, but your husband may find some comfort in something familiar and quiet. Just step back, breath and let the stress ease. I'm a neurosurgical nurse. I see how the struggles are for families every day.

    If it is more of a stress to have this hanging over you unfinished, ask your husband what he would like to see.

    Prayers for your family.

  • 8 years ago

    Very sorry to hear about your husband. :( But don't paint that hutch - it's a LOT of work to do it properly (preparation) and it's way easier to maintain as is. BTW - if the top is detachable, you might want to see how it looks in that space without the top - it will be a lot less overwhelming and it might be nice to just have a picture over it. Just a thought - very easy to try if it's detachable as many of these are. And best of luck to you and your hubby, and I hope he does get to come home.

  • 8 years ago
    Thank you everyone for your comments! You are right, with my schedule: 8-9am at the hospital, 10-3:30 pm office work, 4 to 9 pm hospital and then go home, spend time with our dog ( my neighbour comes during the day to take him out for his needs) and then sleep.
    So my kitchen is okay, and my husband is amazed that I managed to do it all on my own!
    We had some sad news about his condition, but since I am such a positive person, I believe that every minute is a gift to be with him!
    Will post my kitchen photos another day! Stayed at hospital until 11:30;pm today! Good nite everyone!