I am struggling to find the right pendant lights. At first I put up bell shaped glass lights but they were too small. Now I switched to these & I'm still not loving them but I can't figure out why. My husband is getting tired of having to keep hanging up new lights & me wasting $! I'd love some advice. Also, were both really tall (almost 6' & 6'4") so the height is a little high, but otherwise thethey seem in our face.