I have time just to say that I like your bathroom counter, real good with the floor, and not everyone would choose to paint the wood. I'd try a nice canvas art [even over the toilet, etc....]

what happens with different kitchen lighting: sunny, or otherwise - to the colors?

Gray seems like the most logical choice but be careful. How much of light do you get?

I would always opt for the look that is closest to the wood look, like these Galaxy Cobblestone cabinets from Fabuwood -- https://homearttile.com/product/galaxy-cobblestone/. The cabinets are gray but they have an appeal of natural wood which is really beautiful.

If you're set on gray, be aware that there are many gray tones, from deep and dark, to bright and light, and the difference between the two can make a huge impact on the overall look of your kitchen. I would be careful not to make the space seem too cold. And of course, make sure to hire a professional painter and use high quality paint for the best results. If not professionally painted, the paint on cabinets can chip and ware off especially in between seasons and when there are great temperature differences.

Here is your one granite with Stonington Gray

I would prefer a color from the stone.

Are you convinced the cabinets need to be painted?

Please do not rush to do the painting. You must test paint samples in your kitchen. The white you used, probably a primer, it too bright. Maybe something like SW Shoji White would work. Are you changing the floor?

Yes, anyone? to blend cabinets with the floor, if it's to stay as it is. If the soft color, maybe handles could repeat counter, and be cool, satin nickel type.

1st floor - need to add light-filtering curtains? could that be a place for subtle, muted color [over blinds / shades]?

Do you like greens? a green chair would go with white [like this room] / good with your wood floor.

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Idk about a green wall, but you could repeat the grey [and black] in kitchen with grey chair or sofa if you want bright wall, or bright rug.

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Posting only for the plants - if backsplash has green - add plants! :)

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If white cabinets - black appliances {?} will provide enough contrast. I found wood stool with merely bit of black.

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Maybe this "grey sand" fabric is woven from both neutrals / softly to repeat both if in the kitchen.... almost repeats geometry of floor tiles.

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