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Hair obsessed...

7 years ago

I've probably over shared regarding my hair and style changes recently made. Since I last posted on the subject, I've gone even shorter and now have a chin length bob, up off the shoulders several inches. Definitely the shortest I've worn it in years. DH prefers me with long hair but he's not shown any objection to my latest cut. (I think he knows better than to voice dissent!) -- But having gone this short, I find myself noticing short styles all the time now and am quite frankly a little bit obsessed. The one shared below in particular has caught my fancy. Do you wear your hair short and if so, are you loving your look? There's something liberating about not having all that hair hanging below my shoulders. I should've been a flapper. ;-)

Comments (158)

  • 7 years ago

    That cut is beautiful. I have had similar and kind of want to go there again. The issue is I love a lazy top bun. I work in a very conservative industry and the top bun works on lazy mornings. I might go back to chin length next appointment....but I will miss throwing it up

  • 7 years ago

    It really turned out great!

  • 7 years ago

    Thanks so much for the very kind words! Of course, when I washed and dried this morning (had to since workout sweat is rather unbecoming), it wants to flip every which way but the right one and I feel like my styling efforts produced a helmet of old lady hair. Maybe it doesn't look as bad as I feel it does, but somehow even with a great cut it always takes a few days before I can get the hair to cooperate fully. ::sigh:: First world problem, for sure.

  • 7 years ago

    I feel you! The day after, my new cuts never look like they did when I left the salon.

    The pix look great, BTW.

  • 7 years ago

    I hate how my hair looks after I leave the salon, so I can never take a photo or judge at that moment. She does great cuts, but never styles it right. I usually come home, spritz it all over with water, ruffle it up, and then blow it the way I prefer.

    It seems my hair has pre-cut memory and takes 2-7 days to figure itself out again.

  • 7 years ago

    It seems my hair has pre-cut memory and takes 2-7 days to figure itself out again.


    Seriously, how can that be a thing? It totally IS a thing though! Yesterday my stylist had the long points of my hair in front swinging forward in perfect unison. Today one side looks fine, and the other is mangled, demanding to be allowed to flip backwards. Ugh! Stupid hair.

  • 7 years ago

    Your new cut looks beautiful! Hair & salons - I have the worst luck, no matter the price paid. I see great cuts on women, ask who has done their hair, try the same stylist and end up disappointed. It must be me :(

  • 7 years ago

    It looks great. I'm sure you'll sort out the styling.

  • 7 years ago

    Looks great - you'll get it figured out.

  • 7 years ago

    I LOVE freshly pro-styled hair. I can no way do it myself most times. I may get it styled tomorrow as I have been asked to present our new lab space to the Board of Trustees in the evening, yikes!

  • 7 years ago
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    Ida, you could totally pull off strawberry blonde to red hair....Beautiful cut!

    Since there are....issues :( I can't do short hair...not sure I would want it short anyway. I find long to be so very much simpler. I cut it myself when I absolutely have to...I wash it and hit it with the curling iron and that does it for me for 3-4 days. Sometimes (yikes!) I even neglect to find the comb..

    I am enjoying these (various kinds) for damage...



    Hair is an interesting thing...I'm surely not the only one who's cried over a bad salon visit? And absolutely HATED herself for doing so. Like, really disgusted about caring over such a thing.

    And yet, on others, it makes no difference to me if you're bald or Lady Godiva-ish. I don't care...you are what makes me like you...(or dislike you, I guess)

    Anyway...Bunny and I are soul sisters, clearly. (Y'all have seen this, but Penny doesn't get her pic taken...nope)



  • 7 years ago
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    Absolutely gorgeous, Penny! Your hair looks so beautifully lush and healthy. Lucky lady!

  • 7 years ago

    Yes, Very gorgeous!

  • 7 years ago


    I discovered that the shorter cut really brings out the waves if I let my hair air dry. Do any of you wavy headed ladies have a favorite curl enhancing product?

  • 7 years ago

    Well...since we're both in Texas, maybe just stand outside for 30 seconds?


    I practice neglect, but my daughter swears by Not Your Mother's Beach Babe something...spray


    You have lovely hair, but you could so carry off stawberry blonde...the one with a hint of pink?




  • 7 years ago

    ida, that is a great plus. I would love to find a cut that I could just air dry. I . was told though by one stylist that I would have to choose. I am not sure what my frizzy hair could do anyway.

  • 7 years ago

    Not Your Mother's Beach Babe something...spray

    Penny, the sea salt spray I mentioned above was by NYMBB. It not only reeked (to me) of coconut, it really cr@pped up my hair. Someone used it in a video and it seemed worth trying. It was from Target and didn't cost much. Maybe I used it wrong.

  • 7 years ago

    ..jut to say how nice is to see all of you guys..even if it's only back..:)

    it's a very heartwarming thread..

  • 7 years ago

    Gah, just realized I look like death warmed over in that photo above! Had just removed all makeup and was getting ready for bed when I decided to experiment with my hair. Oh well ... who wants to be glamorous at nearly 10pm anyway!

    ;-)

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    Well I think you look good natural. You are so lucky to have wavy hair!!! Anyway, I tried to give you strawberry blond. I have to color it in manually so use your imagination. I didn’t do a good job of it but I was inspired by Penny’s idea. That picture has some golden in it I love but couldn’t seem to do here.

  • 7 years ago

    I just like that you gave me good arched eyebrows! I kinda like the strawberry blonde, but plan to keep growing in my natural color for awhile and see where that leads me.

  • 7 years ago

    You did a good job terri! I think it looks great! (also love the lipstick color)


    Wouldn't it be nice if getting ready was this easy?

  • 7 years ago


    Here's mine, front and back. Finally, in my old age I have a style I like and can maintain. It takes me less than 10 minutes to dry and I have a fair amount of hair. What you can’t see in the pix are the 5” of incoming grey/white. My stylist says she loves the new color and the texture is great. She also always suggests I try drying my hair naturally with a little product, like IdaClaire. Maybe this summer....



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    I just cut off 7 inches and I love it! Long bob lot’s of texture.

  • 7 years ago

    Beautiful, pennydesign.


    And I did get my hair styled for my Board of Trustees presentation. It makes me more confident when I know I look put together.


  • 7 years ago

    Agreed Gscience. The last thing you want to think about is what people are thinking about when they are looking at you.

  • 7 years ago

    Blubird, your hair looks so thick and strong!

  • 7 years ago

    Great cuts. Jen, stay blonde, you look great with that color.

    Bunny, I've been using Aquage Uplifting Foam for a couple of months and love it. My hair is thick and just below the shoulders, but it's sometimes baby fine and hard to add volume. The trick for me with Aquage is to shake the bottle well (from a youtuber) and use more than you'd think all around the crown, rub it in good, and then I comb it through the rest of the hair.

    Blow dry it until completely dried. Now I can wash and wear for 3 or 4 days and still have volume.

    One reason I won't go shorter is since I'm home a lot I have to put my hair into a ponytail or I'll go nuts if hair touches my face and gets near my eye's.

    I gave myself some long side swept bangs, the kind that I brush back, not like the bangs above, so it adds to the lift and fits in a ponytail. :)

  • 7 years ago

    Just resurrecting this to say that I felt brave at a recent salon appointment and had my stylist give me a pixie bob. Not a huge departure from my bob, just a good deal shorter and more piecey. Gosh, it feels good to have short hair again. I am also growing in my natural color(s) - a mix of dark to medium blonde with some silver and white, and growing out my bangs. Pardon my shiny face (it's so hot here), but I feel more "me" than I have in some time. Here's to carefree summer hair!




  • 7 years ago

    Love it! Suits you!!

    User thanked tartanmeup
  • 7 years ago

    I love it--both the cut and the color!

    User thanked Feathers11
  • 7 years ago

    Its super cute! And sassy. I really like it.

    User thanked Bluebell66
  • 7 years ago

    Very cute!!!


    User thanked girlnamedgalez8a
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    I love, love your hair! Looks very cute on you and makes me wish I could do short hair!

    User thanked OutsidePlaying
  • 7 years ago

    Thanks so much for the kind words! I used to have dreams when my hair was long that I'd cut it, and woke up so relieved to find it all still there. Now that I HAVE cut it, I'm a little surprised not to miss it at all.

  • 7 years ago

    Great cut! Very pretty indeed = )

    User thanked carolb_w_fl_coastal_9/10
  • 7 years ago

    That is fabulous.

    User thanked hhireno
  • 7 years ago

    I find myself wanting to go even a LITTLE bit shorter, a LITTLE bit edgier. It's probably a good thing my stylist is out of town at the moment, so I have an opportunity to give that some more thought before taking yet another "transformative" plunge in her chair. ;-)

  • 7 years ago

    Love it!

    User thanked tinam61
  • 7 years ago
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    Getting these haircuts must be like what they say about tattoos: once you get one, you’ll get more. Summer is the time to try short hair.

    My hair has grown back in - yay! It seems curlier and my stylist said sometimes it comes in curly but it doesn‘t stay that way for everyone. Whatever, I’m just so happy it’s back to it’s former volume. I‘ve been using a Diva Curl styling product and I’m happy with the results.

  • 7 years ago

    Yes, I think you're right. And I'm well-versed in the concept of tattoo addiction, as my old inked-up body will attest. ;-)


    Your hair sounds great, hhireno! Interesting that it's come back curly too. I'll bet it's looking cute.

  • 7 years ago

    Love everyone's short hair, but for me, having those bobs with bangs and sides sweeping into my face would make me nuts. I have thin, fine, straight hair and right now it is all pulled back in a ponytail with a headband to keep stray wisps from getting into my face. Sigh. Since I seem to be losing my jawline (look fine from the front so far, but side view is awful now), I am trying to stop caring! What I would give though for thick hair!

  • 7 years ago

    I live in a ponytail, too, and stopped checking my profile. My neck and chin, eek!

  • 7 years ago

    I used to always wear a thick shelf of bangs to my eyebrows. Now I can't stand hair flat against my face so I've let them grow a bit and wear more to the side. If I could get away with it, I'd just get a buzz cut.

  • 7 years ago

    I've gotten to the point where a full fringe of bangs drives me nuts. Mine are growing out, and are worn sideswept. I also often take the longer sides of my hair and tuck them behind my ears ... which kinda makes me think I should just get it cut short over my ears and be done with it, but then I feel like I'd be cutting off my options!

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    OT but IJS:



    Who is who?


    This is not Megyn Kelly btw

  • 7 years ago

    You’re hair is very much like my DD’s. You both can wear any style beautifully and never seem to have a bad hair day. I like your newest cut a lot, it’s a little edgy and really cute.

    Unless it has lots of body, (which mine doesn’t) thick hair really isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. I just had my hair thinned and 4 inches cut off and I still it feel like I’ve got a mop on my head. My hair also grows super fast which doesn’t help the cause either. Gahhh!!!

    User thanked Lukki Irish
  • 7 years ago

    Thanks, KB! I feel your pain though ... Mine has to be thinned considerably, especially at this length, or it looks like I too am wearing a poofy mop.

  • 7 years ago
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    Oh well, at least it’s a pretty mop!!! LOL