Matching comforter and curtains are just not that popular anymore, that is why you can't find sets. Buy the comforter that you love and purchase coordinating curtains separately.

I agree with deegw.

You could pull a color out of your comforter and do a solid curtain, if you’re not comfortable mixing patterns. It just depends on what style(s) you like.

Sounds like I am goinf to have to change rods. I currently have sheers, drapes and a valance all on different rods. I am definitely keeping my sheers and will need to find lined drapes. Any suggestions where to find quality lined drapes?

Hopefully others can give more suggestions ... I’ve bought lined ones from JC Penney’s (years ago, very good quality), and some I had custom made locally.

What is your budget? I haven't purchased drapes lately but Country Curtains used to be my go-to. They have been bought out by Vermont Country Store and I don't know if they have the same quality. They will send fabric samples.

https://www.vermontcountrystore.com/curtains/category/curtains

ok Thank you. I am willing to spend more for good quality