Please post a picture of your kitchen.

I updated with a photo of the kitchen as well

The tiles don't look like a good match with your countertop. I would have gone with a solid color tile.

I hope you are getting rid of the 4" granite splash you already have there?

Also, please take down all the stuff from the top of your cabinets :-)

Lol! Yes the top was my hubby 😩. I will definately be removing that and clearing counter space 😀. the counter tops will be eventually replaced

U need to change countertops before backsplash. The bar on top of cabinets is a tall guy solution 😁 bachelor pad or frat house 😂. 1st get the man a bar cabinet. Then save up for counter tops

That drop-in double bowl sink has got to go please.

IMO those tiles were a poor choice I think not beveled and no herringbone would have been a much simpler choice and if that counter is not marble then marble was also a bad choice.IMO that backspalsg now requires a white grout and no other thing on the counters and for sure not above the cabinets all that just adds to the eye clutter you have created. If at all possible return those tiles and go simpler and not a real stone next to fake.

hi patricia, i will not add any tiles above the cabinet. the tiles are ceramic not real marble. The counters are laminate. i will remove the 4in laminate backsplash to remove some distraction. but im currently looking into different countertops after reading you guys suggestions!