In a modern kitchen, with high-gloss cabinets, I think the most timeless look is to have either no visible hardware, or nearly invisible pulls, like this:

But definitely silver, if it’s visible. I know gold hardware for kitchens is on trend right now, but I think it will look dated quickly.

I like simple stainless bar pulls and I get mine from Lee Valley in proportional sizes for cabinet size. My kitchen but not quite finished but you see the different size pulls

Thank you for your help...my kitchen looks like your photo #1...

LUCKY YOU, Vicky! That is a gorgeous kitchen.