Ebay.

That is a tough sell. Sterling does not fetch much these days.

You could donate the service to a thrift shop which raises funds for a charity.

Do you have Nextdoor? Yeah, silverplate not in much demand. My sister has our mother's set.

Does your church have a kitchen and need extra flatware?

Yes. Sterling is a hard sell. Silver plate is a near impossible sell. Maybe just use it?

Donate to a charity thrift shop. Someone who wants it will buy it.

I think sterling silverware has value that is not much more than the value of the metal, but this can be considerable. Silver plate next to worthless unless the pattern is so unique that it is worth replating.

I have two sets of sterling silverware, and we do not use them - mainly because we do not like the pattern, but that might change.

I had 2 old silver plate sets of my grandmother’s and I kept one setting each for display and the rest I donated to a high school art teacher who specialized in metal arts. She was most appreciative. Unless your brother insists on selling it, you’re better off donating.

eBay or local trading pages, FB Marketplace are good places to start, but you won't get much. I just donated a large set of vintage 1950s Sasaki Wheat glasses (mostly barware) that DD2 couldn't even sell in three MCM FB groups.

For sterling, a coin shop will purchase. I just sold a set for 90% of scrap. He will try to sell for a year or so, then scrap if not sold. (Note: it was not vintage/old, unwanted by family members and not needed. When moving/downsizing, you make decisions.)

@Allison0704, interesting abt a coin shop buying sterling for scrap. I’ve got my mother’s 3-piece sterling tea set and was hoping to sell but the handle is broken so maybe the coin shop would be the place to look. Thanks for the info.

^^^A good jeweler may be able to repair that handle. @unwantedadvice

You know I’ve thought of that and even have a person’s business card for repairing silver but I’m not sure I even want to keep it. It just sits in a display cabinet and there’s no family history, parents bought it at an auction house decades ago. Problem is that no one in my family wants it, just like all my wedding china! It’s a common theme nowadays. But thanks for your input. 😀

Do you all wonder if any of these things will be come desirable again or just think the time has passed entirely? I have this worry in the back of my mind that my children or future grandchildren may decide they want thus down the line. That said it is a long shot I know.

I recently inherited 2 sets of sterling and 2 sets of silver plate. Two additional sets of China as well. I am probably going to sell one of the sterling sets and sell/donate the silver plate. The set of sterling I am keeping was my great grandmother’s and I really like it. The second set was my mom’s her second husband bought the set for her, the pattern is still very popular and as far as silver goes and it appears that I can sell if for a about 1/2 the current sale price. That will work for me.

I’m not sure there’s much value regarding this stuff anymore tbh. Silver has to be cleaned regularly, older china sets need to be hand washed, the list goes on. Most families now don’t want or need to be bogged down with such a responsibility so I think it’d just languish much like mine is doing. Mine, a Noritake set, and my grandmother’s old Syracuse china sits in those fabric zippered cases here and there at my house. One set each is out for display along with sugar/creamer. I like that but not sure what my adult kids would want to do with them. I’d like to dispose of them myself and not leave it up to them. I think unless you’ve got some sought after pieces of sterling or quite expensive china still in demand for some reason, you’re better off ditching them some way. Even old furniture pieces, even some that are antique in age, are sold for a song.

Sterling silver goes into the dishwasher. Only time you need to polish is when it comes into contact with egg yolk or such- mostly egg yolk at my house.

Jill, I don't think we'll ever see middle class people stretch to afford such things again. They are no longer positive status markers.

If no one wants this stuff, why does Replacements charge so much? They want $35 for one dinner plate of my Noritake 1981 wedding china and $50 for one teaspoon of my everyday Oneida stainless bought in the 90’s. Same with eBay. Shouldn’t prices be low if it’s not in demand or rare?

@Joaniepoanie are they selling for those prices? Always check ‘completed auctions’ on EBay to see what things actually sell for.

I sold stuff to Replacements ages ago. Not really worth it IMO since at the time you had to pay for shipping yourself and double box it. Btw, Poshmark sells home stuff now so I may sell some items on my DD’s account. Smaller stuff since there’s a weight limit.

And does anyone know if older china has lead in it?? I’ve always wondered about my grandmother’s as well as my own from the early 70s.

I hadn't thought about lead with fine china -- knew it was an issue with pottery. I just called Lenox to ask them about my mother's pattern as well as some antique pieces I bought to mix in with it. Anything pre-2000 with colors in the design could, I am told. If the color is only on the rim, there is little risk. My mother's gold border pattern is little risk, but anything with floral designs in the center should be used with caution (no heat or acidic foods) or not used for dining -- and definitely not for children.

Oh wow, thanks for that info! Very interesting. My grandmother’s Syracuse china has a gold border as well as an inner one and same with my set except in silver. And of course children ate off of it as it always came out on holidays. Good grief!

If you are so concerned about lead in china, make sure you don't put your hands in garden soil.
Sterling silver flatware is selling...SELLING on ebay for well more than the scrap price. And a set of silver plated flatware for 12, in good condition that has been polished and never dipped in tarnex or that thing with the foil and baking soda will sell for about $100....less if you have to add shipping.
The only dishes I know that are of concern for lead, outside of Mexican tourist stuff, are Poppy Train and an early version of Fiesta ware red.

I suspect some of the more formal things that we valued are on their way to become more desirable but I think it will be a while. Currently, "granny chic" decor is popular on Instagram, it's only a matter of time before the mass marketers jump in. Mom jeans came back - anything can happen!

^^^^^^Hooray!!

Any recent news on sterling flatware becoming more popular? I've got TWO sets I never use and can't bear to just give away...... One is brand new in the felt covers!!

Use it if you love it. Sell it if you don't. Or save it to trade for food if the economy collapses.

Exactly. I use my ‘good’ China and antique glassware all the time. Pizza night with the guys? Absolutely. Why not? Who/ what am I saving it for. I don’t have sterling flatware so if anyone above in the comments feels like sending some to a good home drop me a line ;)

I never had sterling until an inheritance from an auntie. It's very nice and not too fancy, but I am using my mother's 'good' silverware- which is silverplate- that I saved for a long time and used only for holidays. Then I realized that I love it, it won't mean anything to anyone else when I die, so I use it every day now. If I had enough storage in the kitchen to keep both, I might use the sterling sometimes, but I have to get the box out of the closet, so it's not handy to use. Maybe I'll trade them out in the drawer sometimes and switch off. Good idea!

We have a consignment shop here that sells a lot of furniture, jewelry, designer bags, but also china and crystal sets -- some individual pieces. If I had a set I didn't want, I would take it there. They have some Tiffany, Baccarat, and a fair amount of Waterford crystal. A wide range of china patterns. I would search for places near you that list used siler, estate sets, consignments and the like. Having to ship and insure will take a chunk out of anything you can get, so try to stay local. Another thought -- for pieces not in good shape, would be to look for an artist or donate to an art program or school with jewelry making. I have some odd pieces from a set my mother hated and put in the dishwasher -- my brother broke one or more blades off the knives in the groove of the metal banded Formica top table back in the day. I've kept it with jewelry making in mind buy haven't done anything yet.