Omega cabinets has the cerused oak look that you’re looking for. It’s all a high end custom look, so have the right budget expectations.

Thank you, I’ll take a peek at their website. I’m driving my husband crazy but I’m just not finding it locally.

I am doing rift saw white oak and having them bleached to achieve the lighter look,

Now that’s something I have never heard of and was not informed could be done when we talked to the cabinet makers. Thank you for the info. I’d love to see a picture of how your kitchen turns out.