On my monitor it looks like the "whitest" one is too white for your cabinets.

Same. On my screen the one on the right seems like a closer color to the cabs.
However it could be my screen. Or the lighting early morning.
Take a picture or look at it later this afternoon.

Agree the left one seems too bright.

Thank you for the comments. Yes, the whiter one is the glossy finish which we won’t be using although I find it odd the color difference between the Matt versus glossy. We got these samples last wk/end and of course it was dark and grey all wk/end and then I work during the week and miss that mid afternoon natural daylight