You need to test color on your house in your natural lighting and often taking into the mix the style of house . Do you have stone anywhere ? Post a pic of your house or at least the plans.

Look at BM Stonington Gray, but Patricia has a good point. You may get better advice if you post a picture of your house and there is no substitute for sampling.

^^Agree with above posts. We recently went through exterior painting and choosing the right color means A LOT of sampling. Bear in mind colors can read quite a bit lighter on the exterior.

That being said, the Stonington Gray kandrewspa mentioned is worth checking. SW Repose Gray can also be nice, but it’s a lighter, warmer gray…somewhat similar to your first photo.

A couple links FWIW.

https://www.settingforfour.com/repose-gray-undertones-coordinating-colors/

https://www.atlaneandhigh.com/benjamin-moore-stonington-gray/