Laminate table would work.

I grew up with a round, white Formica kitchen table. The base was white painted wrought iron. 3 kids, 2 adults. That table got constant use, and served us well until us kids were grown, and living on our own…and, shortly after that, my folks sold and moved.

There must be Formica tables still on the market. It’s also feasable to have a Formica tabletop made to your specifications. Then find a base you like for it.

Room and board has lots of mix and match variations on beautiful tables, and the tops come in quartz and cambria. Beautiful non wood options. Also, i was just looking at Blu Dot the other day, and they had some nice non wood tables. And check DWR. Finally, if those are above your price point, ikea has tons of great options.

IKEA has lots of solid options, though some of them are wood. I wouldn't personally do Room & Board with very young kids--we are just getting to the point of upgrading to that level of furniture as our kids get to late elementary/middle school. Our reclaimed wood dining table predates the kids but they have definitely done a number on it--not doing anything particularly egregious, but just being kids (forgetting to put newspaper under something they're painting, forgetting to put something hard under paper before writing on it into the soft wood, etc.) In another few years, we'll probably sand that one down and refinish it.

Laminate would probably be the easiest and cheapest option, but I will say that we have a 150 year old oak table that has survived my kids, my brother and me, as well as my mom and her siblings and cousins, my grandmother and her siblings, and her father, etc. It’s been refinished only once in all those years.

You could get the table you want and just have a piece of tempered glass cut to fit the top.

I also have 2 little boys and they are a handful. I remember hearing not to use anything you want to keep around little kids. It will get destroyed. No matter how careful you are. I have had a nondescript no-brand , oval glass table top that withstood their dirty grubby hands, hot plates, and loads of spills. As for white round table, it might be worth it to get glass cut as some already stated.