You are best not to mix whites. They usually dont look good together. I would use the same white you are putting on the cabinets, for the walls, only in an eggshell or matte sheen. If you are paint trim, then use a semi gloss or satin sheen for those. For the ceiling, its flat paint. Just dont use so much white, that you will feel like you are in an operating room. Too many rooms look like that these days.

Test these and see what works best with your kitchen cabinets.

From Camp Chroma (Lori Sawaya)

There are many whites that will compliment the color of your cabinets. Some could include lighter or darker versions of the cabinet color. Take a door into Sherwin Williams and ask for a color match formula. They can also give you lighter and darker, plus other whites to compliment that color. Simple. They have 40 and 50% sales regularly. I'd also include the doors and trim in your color search. The standard door white is stark. If the cab color isn't your favorite white, many cabinetmakers can use a custom color.