There is no reason for them to match. The bar cabinet could be a Victorian wardrobe, an apothecary cabinet, or a purpose built bar from Wayfair or restoration hardware. Choose the best table and chairs you can afford, I prefer oval pedestal tables so there are no legs in the way. What do you like?

I like something like on the picture below as an example. They sell the dining set with cabinet as set. the cabinet wuld fit to space replacing the ikea cabinet I have now, but then I wuld lose some storage space . Im thinking to find also some cabinet to fill the space that I circled on second picture which is between dining room/kitchen/office and living room. not sure if tall or short cabinet wuld be better for that space and what style/color. im just not good at putting things together. any thoughts, ideas very appreciated.

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