Have you asked Emtek about the available finishes?

Yes, this is listed as the same finish but it doesn’t match. Everything was ordered from Emtek through the same local door company.

From Emtek website:

Yes, thank you. We ordered the French antique and what they sent is not the same as everything else. Their other options won’t work either. I probably should have specified that I am looking for another vendor with a finish that may work better.

I have our dealer reaching out to Emtek to make sure a mistake wasn’t made, in the meantime I’m in a pinch to find an alternative.

I think what you show is very close. Sometimes if a selection is close but not the same it looks bad, but I do not see that here. I would look at the finish selection functionally where the polished hardware is for operating the entire door where the brushed hardware is for operating the top half of the door. Kind of like "going dutch".

Use what you have and if anyone objects give them another drink.

I think the French and the Dutch get along?

The Emtek French antique finish is quite unique to Emtek. I have a knob in that finish and it works with my antique unlacquered brass knob sets. You might try Baldwin Hardware, Charleston Hardware, Nanz, Historic Housefitters, House of Antique Hardware, or Van Dykes. I'm sure there are others. But you need to get samples of the exact finish to compare to the Emtek French antique. After all that you might find that the Emtek one is the best match.