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I'm going to be a grandma!

19 days ago

All my life I have known I never wanted to have children, but somehow wanted to be a grandma.


My cousin is a lost soul with mental health and addiction issues. At Thanksgiving, nearly 17 years ago, I met her then 15 year old daughter Hannah, who I hadn't seen since she was a toddler. Hannah had no real parenting and was just floating.


My husband and I stepped in. We taught her how to volunteer, have activities, make friends, and encouraged her dream of going to college. We got her SAT classes, toured colleges, and she chose to go to school in the city where my husband and I lived.


We gave her tough love, support, and lots of adulting lessons. We encouraged her to deal with her feelings of being emotionally abandoned by her mom.


She's four years out of grad school, has a great job, and last year married her boyfriend of seven years. We got the phone call last night. They are three months pregnant. I burst into tears. I am over joyed. And so very, very proud of her.


Comments (53)

  • 19 days ago

    Congratulations. That's indeed a beautiful story.

    Kendrah thanked Bunny
  • 19 days ago

    Congrats!

    Kendrah thanked porkandham
  • 19 days ago

    Congratulations! What a beautiful story. ❤️

    Kendrah thanked Jilly
  • 19 days ago
    last modified: 19 days ago

    Kendrah (Grandma) - congratulations! You will love and enjoy this baby so much. Goodness is repaid in ways we don't expect and you deserve this joy in your life.

    Kendrah thanked morz8 - Washington Coast
  • 19 days ago

    Wonderful!

    Kendrah thanked eld6161
  • 19 days ago

    Congratulations, being a grandma is the best!

    Kendrah thanked jill302
  • 19 days ago

    Really lovely story and congratulations!

    Kendrah thanked rubyclaire
  • 19 days ago

    Congratulations, you will be an awesome Grandma!

    Kendrah thanked lucille_444
  • 19 days ago

    Perfect— best wishes to all !

    Kendrah thanked lisaam
  • 19 days ago

    What a lovely story and I am so happy for you! I hope they don't live too far so that you will be able to see them often.

    Kendrah thanked maire_cate
  • 19 days ago

    Congratulations! Anyone can be called Grandma, but you did so much more❤️ Enjoy every moment

    Kendrah thanked njmomma
  • 19 days ago

    Hurray, hurray! What wonderful news. My four grand nieces/ nephews are like grandchildren to me. Its great.

    Kendrah thanked dedtired
  • 19 days ago

    Congratulations!!!

    Kendrah thanked Fun2BHere
  • 19 days ago

    Kendrah, you are about to enter one of the best parts of your life! What a wonderful story. That you and your DH were able to be a guiding force in her life when she needed it the most is so fortunate for all. Congratulations to Hannah and to you all.

    Kendrah thanked OutsidePlaying
  • 18 days ago

    So very happy for you. You will love being a grandma!!!

    Kendrah thanked cyn427 (z. 7, N. VA)
  • 18 days ago

    Thank you all. We are an hour and a half Amtrak ride / drive away from them. I cannot wait to be a part of this baby's life. They are talking about moving down south to somewhere warmer in four or five years so. I gotta drink it all up while I can.

  • 18 days ago
    last modified: 18 days ago

    kendrah - CONGRATULATIONS!!!! Thank you for sharing such an amazing story.

    My two little ones (three and 10 months) have brought so much joy to my world. Not saying that I didn't love raising my two daughters - I have a very close relationship with each of my girls. However, being a "nana" is just different. It's all the fun without the hard parts.

    My grandson has come over to my house once a week since he was about 4 months old. Listening to him squeal, "Nana!" as he runs over to jump in my arms EVERY time I see him (regardless of who else is with him or what he's in the middle of doing) is such a wonderful feeling.

    My granddaughter comes over for a day every other week (my grandson hasn't completely adjusted to sharing me - so, he still has his own day every week). She is so sweet and loving.

    I am truly happy for you!!💕

    Kendrah thanked dani_m08
  • 18 days ago

    How wonderful!!

  • 18 days ago

    What a wonderful story! Congrats and enjoy!!!!

  • 18 days ago

    Best wishes to all!

  • 18 days ago

    Like a dream coming true! May that little one bring much joy and happiness to you. What a wonderful thing you have done!

    Kendrah thanked Arapaho-Rd
  • 18 days ago

    Kendra’s, how wonderful! What a beautiful story.

  • 18 days ago

    Congratulations! That’s such a lovely story!

  • 18 days ago

    Great job. Congratulations and enjoy while you can!

  • 18 days ago

    Congratulations, Kendrah! What a beautiful story.

  • 18 days ago

    What a wondrful story! Lucky you, lucky niece and a very lucky baby.

  • 17 days ago

    That's great. You'll have so much fun with the baby. Watching Hannah pass on some of the nurturing you all gave her will be the cherry on the top.

    Kendrah thanked mnzinnia
  • 17 days ago
    last modified: 17 days ago

    This all goes to show that family is what you make it. This baby will be my first cousin twice removed. Everyone thinks Hannah and I look like sisters or mom and daughter. We kind of love it and smile secretly at each other. Hannah's mom is adopted and so we share no blood. People see love.


    I called Hannah today and told her I want to throw the baby shower. We are already having fun thinking about it!

  • 17 days ago

    Congrats! Grands are THE best! What a beautiful story, thanks for sharing.

  • 17 days ago

    Congratulations! Nothing like having a family role that allows all the spoiling you want!

    Kendrah thanked RedRyder
  • 17 days ago

    Congratulations and welcome to the best club ever! (Have you picked your grandmother name yet?)

  • 17 days ago

    People see love.

    This is so beautiful, Kendrah, and what a wonderful story! Congratualtions and enjoy every moment!

  • 17 days ago

    Congrats! How fun!

  • 17 days ago

    Congrats Kendrah!

  • 17 days ago

    Hannah’s mom is incredibly jealous and resentful of my relationship with her. I never want that to spill over on to Hannah so I will stay away from any grandma type names. That will just stoke the flames.


  • 17 days ago

    It would be nice if she had a special name for you. I like ”Kenni”. Hannah was SO amazingly fortunate that you and dh swooped in to rescue her. Your reward will be endless, and everything declared by all your hz granny friends! I can only add ditto!

    Kendrah thanked martinca_gw sunset zone 24
  • 17 days ago

    I was a nanny when I was younger and the kids called me Kiwi. I’d take that again.

  • 17 days ago

    This is such a lovely story. I’ve reread several times and am happy every time I do.

    Kendrah thanked Sheeshie
  • 17 days ago

    How wonderful for you! Congratulations!

  • 17 days ago

    This is such a great story! And I love Kiwi, how cute is that?!? Congratulations❤️

    Kendrah thanked legomom23
  • 17 days ago

    Congratulations Kendrah! Great back story ❤️

    Kendrah thanked Irish2
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    17 days ago

    Kendrah! What a wonderful! Gift! You probably saved her. May you enjoy many years haring special moments! What a great Mother role model you are! And your hubby too.

  • 17 days ago

    Kendrah, in your short telling of this touching story, you make the role you and your DH played sound facile. I am pretty sure it was anything but. I don't know you, but I know you deserve this gift and will be the best grandma. So happy for you.

    Kendrah thanked daisychain011
  • 16 days ago

    Congratulations on love coming back to you! If you think "Kiwi" might be it, there's just one of these left on etsy.com:


    https://www.etsy.com/listing/4388140837/beak-the-kiwi-bird-ty-beanie-baby?gpla=1&gao=1&&utm_source=bing&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=shopping_us_en_us_Bing_US_-_Toys_and_Games&utm_custom1=k_b1932751139d12d12e7a4e4ad5d1fb87_k&utm_content=bing_412365361_1302921576505559_81432662393597_pla-4585032213877710:pla-4585032213877710_c__4388140837&utm_custom2=412365361&msclkid=b1932751139d12d12e7a4e4ad5d1fb87

    Kendrah thanked jayapple21
  • 16 days ago

    Does the new mom have a nickname for you?

  • 16 days ago

    We are Dammie and Tappy. Our 14 yr old grandson’s name starts with a ”G”. He couldn’t say a “ G “sound and said ”D” instead. He was our first grand and we didn’t know what we wanted to be called. He started with something that sounded like ” damma” and he gradually changed it to ” Dammie ” . I liked it so it has remained and our others use it as well . As far as ” Tappy” our grandson just added it to ” Dammie” and as far as he’s concerned we are all one word ❤️❤️. Years ago when he would open their door to let us in he would always crane his neck around me and either ask ” where’s Tappy? “ or exclaim ”There’s Tappy !” . The other day he was over and we were talking about people moving and he said, ” you can’t ever move or I couldn’t come do music with Tappy. ”


    So that’s settled. 🙏 c

  • 16 days ago
    last modified: 16 days ago

    No. Hannah and I just go by first names. We are 19 years apart in age. She's felt so much younger than me until this year. Now she is starting to feel like my peer. Her friends think I am her Aunt.

    Growing up Hannah called my brother Uncle but her Mom never referred to me as Aunt because I refused to do drugs with her and I moved away and got a life.

  • 16 days ago

    What a beautiful story. Thank you for sharing with us, and congratulations!

    Kendrah thanked jsk
  • 16 days ago

    Congratlations to all! You’re going to love being a grandma.

    Kendrah thanked sjerin
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