WHY did you pick a wood noted for it's rosy pink tones if you didn't want pink? Replace it with walnut or white oak, or live with it. It's great looking as is. All natural wood looks great, unaltered. Plus, all the rose and burgundy tones are taking over, just like 1995, so it's ahead of the curve. You'll be painting those cabinets burgundy before you know it.

The green undertone in the paint on your cabinets is bringing out the red undertones in the wood.

RED OAK

WHITE OAK

With your window trim and floors, I would have gone with a walnut counter.

Walnut would have been lovely!! Bit of decision fatigue picking it out… white oak on the floor and trim. But it’s such a Sammy part of the whole

Sorry about that post! Such a small part of the whole new build, I’ll decide to like it if I can’t do anything about it!

They have this in Nutmeg (below) + a black stain. It is safe for food contact.

Here is the black/ebony (customer posted photo on Lowe's website):

I assume that there are other food safe stains also.

No. No stain of any variety is food safe for knife food prep to end up in your stomach. To lay a piece of bread on it contact, to make a sandwich, yes. To cut that bread and have microscopic bits of finish and wood ingested, NOPE. Mineral oil is the only wood treatment that is also safe to ingest. It's used as a laxative, so you might not enjoy ingesting it, but it won't hurt you. And no stain of any kind will physically work after the wood fibers are soaked with mineral oil.

Just read the safety sheet. a0e63d15-b32f-438e-a4e7-d96c976bb749.pdf

I think it looks quite nice.