Can you use the rug in another room?

I would see if you can use it in another room. The rug does make the room look a lot darker. You could change out the furniture to something lighter or change the light fixtures to allow more light in.

To me does that rug does not look bad at all

its very busy, i really like it tho! and with kids patterns are good for stains and foot traffic. I say keep it!

maybe everything just kinda feels shoved in the corner...i have the same problem with my living room...

I think the rug is really pretty, but the pattern is very bold, and for me it's the only thing that catches my eye. I think that what might be throwing things 'off' for you. To create a sense of balance I would suggest adding some accessories like wall art, throw pillows, lamp shades, etc. that repeat the golden tones in the rug and help draw your eye around the space (instead of only at the rug).

Thank you all! I was thinking of changing out the lamps & other decor items to balance things out. I do like that the rug will hide little issues from the dogs & kids.

i would try a lamp with a glass shade, and a little color in it to balance out. and go with lighter coffee/endtables. oh and some lighter matt framed art.