So I'm trying to design my dream house that fits the criteria mentioned in the title and was looking for some input from others who might've already researched it. My goal is simple: if a house would need it or I'd want it, I want to do it in a manner that fits the title. For example a house needs a roof, would a metal roof be the best in terms of low maintenance and efficiency? Below are some of what I think are some good criteria so far. It's more or less a running list of what we want in our future home. I know some of these options may be more expensive than alternatives. I would sacrifice a little cost for less maintenance and durability over time.

General Requirements:
At least 2400 sq ft w/ 2 master suites w/ bathrooms and another 3 piece bathroom
Solar power w/ battery bank
Well water if available
brick/stucco/stone exterior - haven't decided
Septic system if possible
Hardwood (recycled) floors through entire house
Rain collection system from gutters
Tile showers – make walk-in with no doors if possible
Paint that can be washed off
3 car garage
Quartz counter tops – no mx required
Living fence – plant something if we need a fence like bamboo or shrubs etc. No mx required
Passive house plan – for cheap and efficient heating
Wood fireplace – self sustain heating if needed
Living pool – has plants to filter water. Very little mx required
Roof (metal) – might be lower mx if cost effective
Storage – lots of storage

Kitchen:
Brick oven & regular oven
Back splash
Large pantry with efficient storage (underground cellar under island if possible to keep food cool)
Convection stove
Quiet closing cabinets