Look at Benjamin Moore barbados sand, oakwood manor, blond wood. The two colors you mentioned are BM Historical collection. you need to look at the classic and color preview collections.

We have bought vacation house with 8 ft ceilings--having it repainted--going with BM white for trim and Barbados Sand in open LA/Dining/Den area
kitchen has shaker style cabinets in light cherry with dark brown granite counters and SS appliances
could you suggest a light blue that would be same light shade as Barbados Sand for bedroom--one I picked Honolulu Blue is really too strong a color--
thinking maybe more a turquoise or spa blue-green that is popular now