Take samples of the creamy beiges and whites and put them up on the wall. See the different colors during the different light from morning to evening and you will take down which ones don't look good .
Plus I would suggest to paint your door and moldings white. It would look fresh.

You do not have to purchase the samples first. Use the swatches first , then get the samples of paint.

Thanks everyone! I really appreciate the suggestions. I really like the idea of possibly painting my doors white --- but look ... I have a whole wall of windows -- do I paint them ALL white??? NONE of my other windows in the house are the wood color -- just these. I wouldn't mind painting them white. But would that be TOO MUCH white?

Now I'm looking at these pictures I just posted. The first one, I see my dining room window, and it's of course all white. Maybe it would look ok??

I have a friend who owns lots of rental property and all is painted Navajo White, so I always think of his addage about keeping it neutral. Paint the window frames and doors white and look for a greige to do the walls. I think you'll love it. Search the box at the top of the page for "greige" under dropdown "photos" and other topics in the dropdown. I think one of the pros posted a tutorial on greige. Check it out and I think you'll have your solution - except for the scaffolding. Can't help you there, but here's a tip. Last time we replaced bulbs in the vaulted ceiling at our cabin we switched to the new plug-in LED cans. No more scaffolding!!!! A couple of other suggestions: put the candlesticks from the windows on the dining table and remove the clutter from the windowsill before installing drapery that falls to the floor and is hung on a rod at the level of the frame bottom of the window above the sliders. Does that make sense? Lower your light fixture to 36" above the tabletop or to eye level of the tallest person in your house, whichever is higher.

Benjamin Moore 981. It's a great " griege" (gray beige)!!!

Paint all the trim white I like Cloud White & take a look at Stone House by Benjamin Moore. Also Bennington Grey has a green undertone that works well with oak, stay away from yellow or pink undertones. The Houzz list of beiges is a good start & the paint store should be able to offer some help.

dsma, the swatches are just too small. $2.98 is nothing to pay for a paint color you are certain of!

I would like to suggest that you paint the trims white (cc30) and then the walls in HC173. It has the "tan" look that you wanted but staying away from the yellow undertone. Laura

Shaker beige Benjamin Moore and paint all trim white

I hate yellow too! Brownish grays would be perfect!! Our living room is called "sidewalk square" from Kilz and we have the same color floors and white trim and it looks perfect :)

Here's a beautiful color from Benjamin Moore
http://houzz.com/photos/334708

Paint the all the trim white - you will have a lot more flexibility with wall colors. I have used BM cloud white on walls and imagine it would do well on trim with your wood floors.

Definitely paint out all your window/door trim a white, but pick the white after you've chosen your wall color. It looks like its the trim more than the floors that have that strong yellow/orange color. In fact I think your floors will look beautiful with a cool(no yellow) paint color.

I like white for trim and am with you on the yellow I do not like it even as an undertone. I just painted our living room a lovely soft tan called Rivera Beach and used Valspar paint, smooth good coverage.