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Kids - Robin- not returned advice please

21 years ago

Hi, everyone.... I just need some advice on a lost kids robin..I have contacted this person and have pleaded to this person to send the box on.. They have been out of town and every reply has been that they are not home yet and would send it then. Their flight was delayed etc. They emailed and said they would be home last weekend, but no reply..I have asked if they could contacted someone at home and I would send them my addy or the next person on the list but no reply.. its was delivered aug. 12. I still have about 9 kids for that robin to go too.. what do you think I should do? This robin was for only kids, so what am I suspose to tell my daughter that her robin that she started is not coming home to her. Because I can not get it to move on. I have gotten some not so nice emails from a couple of parents..So what do I do now any suggestions..

Please no negative replys we don't want to get in to trouble..

Thanks Erica

Comments (47)

  • 21 years ago

    There is really nothing you can do, other than send out another robin, this is a risk we take when sending out a robin.some people just don't play fair. just hope the seeds went to good use.I have lost a few over the years, you can report them to the p.o for postal fraud, sometimes just the threat of this is enough. good luck. carol

  • 21 years ago

    i wish that it was just seeds the box had over 45++ items that are multi items(doubled/or more) which was about 100++ toys and gifts, there was only about 5 packets of seeds in it.. it's heart breaking that i can't fix this...thank you for your repy...erica

  • 21 years ago

    Hi Erica. I'm not even in this RR and I am annoyed that this person did that. I think you should file postal fraud charges on her and let her face the consequences. You should have her address, report her to the postal service. Not fair to you or the others. What a shame that this person was so unreliable to do this!!

  • 21 years ago

    i'm in total agreement
    this is mail fraud
    if you have the confirmation slip you can show it was delivered
    bottom line, it was accepted in good faith and it should be returned as such
    how desparate that someone would be so low, lower than sludge, to steal, especially from kids. so pathetic.
    i agree it's a chance you take, but it's also thievery, especially since the person acknolwedged that they received and would send. as backup to your complaint with the post office, attach copies of the emails back and forth between you and the person that delibertly kept it. it's more evidence of their act of fraud and the post office WILL press charges. it's considered a federal offense.

    it costs you NOTHING to file the complaint but costs the recipient EVERYTHING!

    sorry this happened to you, but it appears it's been the thing of late, desperate losers in need of seeds and such.

    i often think about starting one of these type boxes, but then i read these type of posts and change my mind real quick.

  • 21 years ago

    Would it be justice to provide those who had not yet recieved the box with the address and email of the party who still has it? It seems only fair that the kids get what they deserve --it's just awful that had to happen. How sad. Kids don't deserve to be dissapointed that way so young in life. I hope whoever it was that didn't pass it on--can live with it.

  • 21 years ago

    Hi, everyone. I wanted to thank you all for your advice about my kids round robin. If you read the post in (Lindsey's -----kids----- round robin) you will see the garden name of the person who still has the robin.
    Ok any hooo.. I need help If anyone would like to help me make this up to the kids I would appreciate it. But I just canÂt afford to do it all over again for all 9 kids. Some have more than one child in the house that are playing.. So I would love it if some of you wonderful people would like to send something to one of these kids on the list.. That way they all get a surprise from a different person.. Would anyone be interested in helping me? It can be a toy-plants-candy-movie etc. Anything child safe and fun.. Lol

    FL--1.Jessie, 2.James, and 3.Meg
    NJ--4.Debbie
    NH--5.Monique & 6.Kenny
    Maine--7.Acee and 8.Avery-Logan
    OH--9.Lindsey

    I will check this often throughout the weekend-- any of the parents that are on the list and want to send to a child please let me know and IÂll send the age and info. And if anyone else would like to help ---
    I thank you from the bottom of my heart. Erica

  • 21 years ago

    ok :)) send me linsey age 9 of ohio I will get a box out to her on monday :))

    come on you gals if everyone takes 1 child we can fill all their wishes .
    no robin robber can stop a robin it will go on right ::)))
    happy gardening
    susie

  • 21 years ago

    I wasn't in on this swap since I have no youngsters at home.
    I think it's just terrible that someone would keep a robin, especially one for kids. That is so low!

    Please send me info for Debbie & I will send her a box.
    I picked Debbie just because I don't know any young Debbies. All the ones I know are 40-50, me included. Glad to see the name is still liked by someone. :)

  • 21 years ago

    NJ--Debbie,OH--Lindsey have been choosen by some very special people...
    thanks so much for your help...i can send you guys some seeds to you if you would like... to show that i feel so blessed to have such good friends here... erica

  • 21 years ago

    Hello.
    My kids and I were in this robin early on, so I haven't been following it since it left us. We enjoyed it so much... it's a shame that some kids have been left out due to the lost robin.

    My kids would love to put a package together for NH--5.Monique & 6.Kenny since they are the same age. Also, if you can send me Linsey's address, that would be great. My daughter wrote her a special note and included it in the box, but I guess that's lost now as well.

    Please email me and let me know how to proceed. Thank you.
    {{gwi:1238356}}

  • 21 years ago

    Hi Erika and Lindsey,
    I wasn't in this swap, but I did a small rr you were in, and that didn't have any problems all the way home! It is too bad this happened, especially being a kids rr. Gee, what a good role model :( I will get a small box together fot the Maine Kids, and send me Lindseys addy as well too!
    I guess it is fair to say a True Hard Life Lesson, but that doesn't mean the kids can't be happy too! Lets get some boxes sent ladies!! :)

  • 21 years ago

    These kids have been taken already..Thanks so much for your kindness..
    NJ--Debbie
    NH--Monique & Kenny
    Maine--Acee and Avery-Logan
    OH--Lindsey

    FL--1.Jessie, 2.James, and 3.Meg---- these are the last ones left..then all the kids will be done...
    again i want to thank all of you..i sure hope we put some smiles on all their faces...

  • 21 years ago

    Erica & Lindsey--
    READ LAST POST-- in your Round Robin...there's an idea to kick around, Debbie of NJ, Monique & Kenny of NH, Acee, Avery & Logan of MAINE....PUT A SPECIAL PACKAGE IN JUST FOR LINDSEY..besides the robin boxful it's self..then back to us, Jessie, James & Meg of FL.
    Let us know what you think of the idea..

    TINA**JESSIE, JAMES & MEG

  • 21 years ago

    ok all the kids are taken except for FL--Jessie-12yr girl, James-11yr., and Meg-9yr, but i am waiting on 3 people to reply..

    We want to thank you all for helping make this kids smile..

  • 21 years ago

    Erica
    We would like to send Lindsey a box of appreciation, for the thought of Jessie, James & Meg taking part in the Robin, even tho it didn't finish, if enough people rally together, we all can finish it up with a good smile on our faces, despite rotten apples who sometimes crop up in the bunch........we'll have a box ready to send to Lindsey by Wednesday--to Lindsey in Ohio.

    Tina**Jessie, James, & Meg :D :D :D

  • 21 years ago

    ok meg is taken too..just 2 more kids, waiting on 2 replys and then we are on our way..woohoo...lol erica

  • 21 years ago

    I have no idea what is happening here but if you are looking for someone to send small boxes out to two kids, I can certainly handle that on Tuesday. Let me know.

  • 21 years ago

    hi erica
    please let lindsey know her box is on the way .
    conf #0304 1560 0005 8057 3205

    & hope that she enjoys :))
    susie

  • 21 years ago

    Erica,
    I sent a package to Debbie in N.J. today.

    DC#03043490000120544234

    I hope she enjoys it.

  • 21 years ago

    thank you everyone.... all the kids are now taken.. lindsey wanted to take the last 2. she had a yard sale sunday and made enough to get the last 2 movies.. thank you all for your help..i'm glad that i have such good friends here..erica and lindsey

    skohler - Debbie_SW_OK ---bless your hearts you guys are super fast...

  • 21 years ago

    just checking to make sure the box arrived ok or not yet .
    should have . but the conf # says check back later .
    so please let me know ok
    susie

  • 21 years ago

    no box yet.but i'll let you know as soon as it gets here..erica

  • 21 years ago

    According to USPS website, my package was delivered to Debbie today.
    That seems strange since mine had farther to travel than Sue's.

  • 21 years ago

    this is really for the birds getting so you can't even rely on prioity mail anymore still says it was excepted at the hastings po where i sent it out on monday the other I sent to arkansaw had arrived on tuesday so figure that will you and I mailed them the same day .
    well I sure hope it gets there tomorrow or I will be
    calling the post office .
    sorry I hope I didnt mess up the addy on the box .
    will check back tomorrow .
    susie

  • 21 years ago

    Yes Debbie_SW_OK, Debbie did get the you box yesterday. She just loved everything. The jump rope is really cool. We never seen one you adjust like that. It got a good work out last night since I had to babysit and had more kids in the house then I needed. We stared to read Heidi last night. Debbie loves to read. I wanted to read Anne of Green Gables first, Debbie wins.

    Debbie also got crayon shape erasers, 2 sizes of black paper pads and gel pens, gummie bears, smiley pencil case with pencils, sharpener, and ruler, a flavored lip-gloss and gem sticks. What a big she had.

    Debbie is sending you a

    We thank you so much for making this up to her.

    Debbie & Anna

  • 21 years ago

    erica
    I see that there is still no more info on the box I sent out on monday & I will be calling the post office tomorrow to see what has happened .
    sorry for this I should have maybe used ups :(( .
    susie

  • 21 years ago

    no problem guys, the mail man is probably taken it easy before the weekend..lol he has to save he strength like the rest of us to plant and play too....lol erica

  • 21 years ago

    Anna,
    I'm glad Debbie liked the things I sent her. It's been a loooong time since I shopped for a 9 year old girl.:)

  • 21 years ago

    Hi Erica,
    Acee and Avery's box is heading to them today!! Steph

  • 21 years ago

    erica
    called my post office & the post master says for you to call your post office to see if it might be there somewhere .
    conf$ 0304 1560 0005 8057 3205
    please let me know this has me very upset with the usps
    I hope it gets there today.
    this is crazy for prioity /conf to take 5 days for 1 state away .
    got to go cool off :)))
    susie

  • 21 years ago

    lindsey got her box today..wow she was so happy.. she loved the blanket and the alarm clock.(she has it set for 6:30am her fav. cartoon comes on them she said..lol on a saturday) crazy kid.....she loved everything... susie you out did yourself and put a huge smile on her face.. which puts you way up there on my list..thank you for being so kind to my little girl. erica

  • 21 years ago

    I "M Just so happy that it arrived what a scare & Pannic attact when our post master said it cannot be traced by the conf # till it has been scaned .
    It is just so hard to believe I sent out 3 boxes on monday going to arkansaw,Pa, & Ohio the othe 2 was delivered by tues & weds yours took till friday DUH Guess it was packed to heavy and they had to call for a he man to deliver it :)) I'm just glad it is there and that she can enjoy all .
    sorry for the delay .
    susie

    PS have all the other kids gotten their boxes yet ???

  • 21 years ago

    Erica & Lindsey,
    Lindsey's box is out today....we've been sick and just able to get out and go get groceries without coughin' all over everyone, hope she likes what's in it, the kids chose everything, with their own reasoning.
    Jessie chose 2 things for Lindsey for learning, James chose something for her for red white and blue days (something to fly & something to wear), and Meg chose a toy and hair du-dads...

    CONF#0304 1560 0001 4709 6024 PRIORITY DELIVERY/TUESDAY-20th
    good health & no colds to all!!

    TINA**JESSIE, JAMES & MEG

  • 21 years ago

    my box went out to james today.another member in the robin is sending to jessie..lindsey had a yard and got james some nice movies.. hope he likes them..erica

  • 21 years ago

    JAMES RECIEVED HIS BOX YESTERDAY, AND THANK YOU LOTS--
    HE SAYS HE'S WAITING FOR JESSIE & MEG TO RECEIVE THEIRS AND THEY'D OPEN ALL TOGETHER, THEY ARE ALL EXCITED!!!!

    THEY ARE SEEING THE ROBIN REALLY WORKED THIS TIME...EVEN THO THE CIRCUMSTANCES BEING THAT THE BOXES ARE 'PERSONAL ROBINS'....AND NOT STASHED FULL FOR EVERYONE!!
    ..THERE ARE GOOD PEOPLE IN THE WORLD, DESPITE THE BAD APPLES.

    LET US KNOW WHEN ANOTHER ROBIN TAKES PLACE WITHIN THIS GROUP, WE'RE GAME.

    THE BAD APPLES CAN SIT IN A BASKET AND FERMENT!!!! (:-D~

    TINA** JESSIE, JAMES & MEG ((FROM FLORIDA))

  • 21 years ago

    Hi, Everyone. Greetings from California.
    Argh... I've been so busy... we have some items for Monique and Kenny boxed up but haven't been able to get to the post office. I will mail it out by the weekend. Sorry kids... but some goodies are headed your way courtesy of my 8 and 11 year old kids.

  • 21 years ago

    No sign of Jessie & Meg's Robin's yet.

    Tina** Jessie, James & Meg

  • 21 years ago

    To Monique and Kenny.
    Our dad finally got off his butt and mailed our package to you. We hope you enjoy the make up gifts in the box. Confirmation number is 0103 8555 7495 4353 6889.
    Thanks,
    Allison, Thomas, and Phil

  • 21 years ago

    Tina, Tell Meg she needs to watch for hers. It should be there today or Thursday.
    Tracking #: 9101010521297997686067

    We hope she enjoys everything. Debbie and her dad picked it all out for her.

    Anna & Debbie

  • 21 years ago

    lindsey got her box, today...wow she was so excited..god bless and thnak you for making my little girl happy...thanks erica

  • 21 years ago

    Thank you for letting us know. We are glad she is happy. Tell her to enjoy everything. Just trying to help make up for thier lost.

    Anna & Debbie

  • 21 years ago

    Anna & Debbie
    Thank you so very much, Meg received her Kid Robin yesterday afternoon, and seriously..........

    ..it was like Christmas before Halloween around here!!!!!!!

    You made my youngest daughter a very happy little girl!
    Hats off to the both of you, there was obvious thoughtful planning into it.
    Meg is a very appreciative one at 9yrs old---and is in the process of sending a 'thank you' your way.

    Erica, Jessie's robin is left to arrive...then your robin will be at the end of her journey....yes?

    Tina** Jessie, James & Meg

  • 21 years ago

    We are so happy to hear Meg loved everything. One 9 year old shopping for another makes things very easy. I was sick and hubby and Deb did the shopping. 2 kids doing was even better.

    I am so glad everything worked out for all the kids. There is a lot of good people out there. Thank you all for jumping in and here is to all of you.

  • 21 years ago

    has jessie's box went out yet? she is the last one then we are clear. have a great weekend, erica

  • 21 years ago

    Hello,

    I just wanted to say thank you for Monique and Kenny. This could not have come at a better time. Things have been a little off at the house with a member of the family going back and forth to the hospital and doctors office.

    They are truely enjoying everything that they have received.

    On another note, Jessie, I am so sorry it took me so long to mail out your box. I just shipped it today and you should have it in a couple of days. Hope it puts a smile on your face.

    C# 0304 1070 0000 6608 5729

    Suzy

  • 21 years ago

    Suzy
    Thank you much!!!!
    Jessie loved the boxfull! And says to send you a big
    THANK YOU!
    She loves Everything!! And likes to paint and draw, so it'll all be put to good use.
    Thanks abunch.

    Erica, looks like Lindsey's KID ROBIN is officially done.
    I'm sure all that took part will agree that all had great fun, and will hope to do it again sometime,hopefully with the same group of friends...take care....god bless our kids....& bless people with good hearts.

    Tina**Jessie, James & Meg

  • 21 years ago

    I am not sure if acee and avery got their box or not as they were in another kid exchange and there was no name on it...just secret pal...if it was you secret pal here then thank you.