Not sure how different modern painted finishes are, but for our much older painted cabinets, I clean them with a vinegar solution. (I use a 50-50 mix because it's the same multi-purpose solution we use everywhere else in the house, but you could easily drop that down to 10-90 for a much milder cleaning solution.) I sometimes add lemon juice if I have one handy, and that would probably help with the vinegar smell, which is the one downside---otherwise it does a really good job. I dilute it a bit, add a drop of mild washing soap, and use it on our wood floors when they need more than a vacuum, too, which works very well.