It is not in as good of shape as it looks in the picture. I have looked at some painted Duncan Phyfe style tables online and kind of like the look. I'm not opposed to staining it. Just want it to be less red if I do. Not sure if I want it as dark as my floors though.

Here are same variations of navy walls with white accents that I believe would compliment your family room! The common thread they share is dark dining room furniture! Painting furniture is a drag and hard to do well. It chips and needs touch ups. Your furniture is gorgeous and I think if you consider this design, you won't be disappointed. PS upholster chair seats white.

Send them out to be refinished if in questionable shape!

They are at a refinisher right now. I have a friend who was going to do a cool finish on it but is unable to do so now. I'm definitely keeping the fabric on the chairs as I just recovered them and the fabric wasn't cheap. Besides, I love it! There is no way to paint the dining room as we really have just one huge great room. Our floors are so dark that I'm scared to do the table super dark.

Them ewe really need to see whole space please.

I don't have a picture looking into the dining room and I'm not there. The dining area is to the right of the living area that is pictured. This is the kitchen.

i agree it looks good as is. but if you must maybe a gray chalk paint?

To some it's a sin to paint over wood, but I see that it just doesn't blend well with your other furnishings and I understand your wanting to paint. You will lose some value and that might be a reason to go out and buy another table and put this one away just in case there's a change of heart someday.