Can we see more pictures of the area?

What brand are you thinking of purchasing?

Before the floors and new appliances

No clue... Negro stellar maybe ... Just nothing stands out and I don't want the color I have now

How about something like this, with grey subway tiles

Not bad. Will that even go with the cabinets? What color is this

Because of the two different colors of your wood, a deeper warmer grey might work.

I was just looking at quasar Silestone.

And painting cabinets will not happen. But thanks!

Will you, at some point, change out the cabinets/reface/paint them? The floors and the cabinets are having a hard time working together. Many people will draw counter top inspiration from their flooring (and vice verse) but the floors and the cabs are a mismatch. The depth of colour is the same but the TONES are clashing.

I would decide on what you want to do with the cabinets (I know it could be a few years from now) AND THEN decide on a counter top that works. You can always install the counter today and then work the cabs in a few years...but you need to have a clear vision of where you are going with this change.

I'm sorry but I can't offer counter top suggestions without knowing in what direction the cabinets are going in. The cabs and flooring clash is causing too much distraction, for me, to offer anything for the counter top.

I actually had a similar problem. My cabinets were still in good shape
but the floor and cabinets seemed like too much wood for me. I hired a painter
and he and painted my cabinets "white dove" by Benjamin Moore and we
installed a warm gray marble subway tile backsplash. It updated my home literally
overnight! I love the results. (I kept the same cabinet hardware.)

You can also remove the front panel of the cabinets and use frosted glass to reduce some of the
"Oak statement" in your kitchen. Maybe the sets of double doors on the left and right of the stove would be ideal for that as they seem to face the adjoining rooms.

I did that in my kitchen and it was a simple improvement without costing a fortune. The only down side is that what ever you see behind the glass must look orderly, unless the glass is really frosted or textured.

@plinka is that a santos mahogany floor you have there? I really like the flooring.

Quartz and Glass, let me know if you like and I can dig up the selections. - jason