Welcome to sunny FL. Been here 3 years myself. Design consultants will provide you great advice but their goal is to up sell you on upgrades as this is profit margin for builder. But that being said, some of their options will be amazing. Highly suggest that you will want to consider wood look ceramic tile for durability and easily cleaned. Carpet is a poor choice in FL because of sand and general humidity (use area rugs that can be laid down instead). If doing the ceramic tile floor choose a beachy traditional look using sandy neutral color for flooring. You can trend this either sand or driftwood gray as both are popular). White cabinetry and white trim. Choose color like sea salt or silvermist by Sherwin Williams since the color really balances between gray, green or blue depending on the light throughout the day (divine). FL does great with the beachy traditional look of sea, sand and surf and that will work great for your tastes. If you visit SW store in advance they have a kiosk with HGTV color combinations that you could look through and find a palate that you love. Take it with you to the appointment to show them your preference. Do a solid surface for your countertop with built in sink. Your hardware could be either bronze or brushed chrome throughout. Pic below shows Silvermist against white bookcase with brushed stainless. Our floors are Brazilian cherry because it was already in place. Do suggest you splurge on buying a roomba. It's amazing for getting sand, fine dirt and dust bunnies. With a growing family, it will save you a lot of energy! Enjoy!

Thanks so much. It's seems that white cabinets are the highest level upgrade, do you think it makes sense to do a basic level and paint in the future?