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Well, Excuse Me! I Thought It Was Summer Time....

10 years ago
last modified: 10 years ago

Did I miss something? Did summer fly by and autumn arrived and now winter lurks right around the corner? Did I spend so much time in the garden that I woke up in the wrong place and wrong time like Rip Van Winkle? Is it still June? June 2016?

Do you wonder what is wrong with me and why I'm ranting and raving?

Well, apparently while I was picking cucumbers and pickling them, and picking tomatoes and salsa-ing them, and picking plums and peaches and jamming and jellying them, the whole calendar year flew right by and I didn't even notice. Is this a case of losing my mind and losing track of the months while gardening? This must be the case because I had to go to an actual store in an actual mall (something I avoid most of the time unless doing holiday shopping) and I walked into a Hobby Lobby store in Ardmore. I do love Hobby Lobby, but....

After I went to the one row of Fourth of July decorations and supplies that was left (if ever they had more than one row), and found what we needed, I rounded the corner to the next aisle and discovered autumn decor. Several aisles of it. Oh dear, and here I thought it was June but apparently it must be September or October. It was quite disconcerting, but then I made peace with it, having noticed long ago that all the stores push the next season's merchandise upon shoppers far too early. I still wasn't happy, though, and wish they could just let summer be summer and not try to make us think it is almost autumn. So, I kept walking a little further because I needed to go to a section near the back of the store, and I found.....

Christmas! Yes, Christmas. They were putting out winter holiday decorations, specifically Christmas tree ornaments. Really? While we are dealing with June heat, squash pests, warm-season harvests, canning and other forms of preserving, beastly heat, gardens that need to be watered and mosquitoes and are looking forward with great anticipation to our first home-grown watermelon of the year, they want to divert our attention to whatever Christmas ornaments they're going to sell for 2016? (sigh)

Call me old-fashioned and hopelessly out of touch, but I want to be in the garden in June, not in a store that wants me to think about, and spend money on, items to celebrate seasonal holidays that remain months and months away. These retailers may be eager to usher in shopping for the next season, but I prefer to live in the present, sweating and toiling in the hot garden while cooler weather, and the need for autumn or winter decoration remains far away in the distant future.

Then we had to go into a Wal-Mart store for something, and I thought I'd look for some sleeveless shirts to make the heat a little more bearable. Well, it is a good thing I wanted to buy them now, because they already are going on clearance so the stores can get rid of them to make room for back-to-school clothing, including long-sleeved shirts. I guess if you need to buy summer shirts in July or August, you're in trouble because they'll all be gone by then and you'll have to hunt for the last lonely short-sleeved shirts crammed onto Final Clearance racks, surrounded by coats and sweater.....Because we all are shopping for long sleeved autumn and winter shirts in June? I walked by those racks of long-sleeved autumn clothes wondering when the retail world lost touch with reality.

No wonder I prefer to spend my days in the garden and in the kitchen, where I always know exactly which season it is in the real world that is our life in Oklahoma in the summertime. I was relieved to get back home to my garden yesterday afternoon, back to the place where it felt like 100+ degrees, the skeeters were biting and summer produce beckoned, wanting to be harvested now while it is at the peak of perfection. It's good to spend June doing June things...and now my rant is over.

Dawn

Comments (10)

  • 10 years ago

    Rule of retail - If you still have summer clothes on 4th of July, you will probably take a loss to move it.

  • 10 years ago

    Very well said Dawn. And now back to my box

  • 10 years ago

    But much of Hobby Lobby's stuff is just flat out decor now, no crafting and assembly required., Amy. I wouldn't mind if it was only crafting stuff, but who needs to buy Thanksgiving table decorations, napkins, serving dishes or ready-made autumn garland and door wreaths in June? Oh, it just makes me crazy. I'm probably halfway crazy all the time, and this sort of thing just pushes me over the edge. I hear you about the stocking caps. Warm winter gloves are the same way. Don't wait until Thanksgiving to need to buy either. Gee, maybe I should take a week off from gardening and do all my Christmas shopping right now before the stores sell out of stuff. Ha ha ha. That is just what they want us to think and to do! Carol, I know you are right but it is ridiculous. On the other hand, parents can buy warm-weather clothing on clearance right now for their kids to wear back to school in August because those kids won't need all those cute sweathers, leggings and long-sleeved shirts in August, will they? Well, unless we have the oddest August weather ever. I used to think it was nuts when Lowe's and Home Depot put out their Christmas stuff around Labor Day, and that was only a few years ago. All the retailers just keep pushing the seasons earlier and earlier. I wonder where it ends?

    Of course, if it is January or February and the big box stores get in their first shipment of extra-early tomato plants, that is okay with me. Early gardening stuff always is welcome, as long as the folks buying them understand they cannot go into the ground that early.


  • 10 years ago

    I refuse to buy things that I have to find a place to store until it is the season to use them. I can always order on-line.

  • 10 years ago

    I agree. I order more and more online all the time. Our UPS and FedEx guys probably wish I'd never discovered online shopping, especially around the holidays.

  • 10 years ago

    Don't get me started on Hobby Lobby. I don't buy many decorations, but I used to spend a lot on knitting/crochet supplies. I don't do as much of that anymore, so I get to stay away. I refuse to go "shopping", and can proudly say I haven't been to a mall in at least 8 years, maybe more! I haven't even driven to Tulsa since late 2014.!!

    Shopping for summer items in the summer or winter items in the winter has been awful for a long time. My youngest daughter has taken her 5 year old on a 2 week excursion through the Rockies, the Tetons, Yellowstone, and Mt. Rushmore. They flew into Denver this weekend, and the first thing she noticed was she didn't pack enough short sleeved things, thinking the mountains would be cooler. I told her to stop and grab a couple of t-shirts, but thought to myself, "yeah, right". (She should have listened to her mom).


    I'm pretty sure my UPS guy hates me. I order nearly everything online. If I could order groceries online and have them delivered to the front door, I'd do that, too.


    Mary

  • 10 years ago

    The folks that run American corporations just can't get enough money. Just sad really.

    I really wish they could relearn the simple pleasures of life and quit squandering our finite natural resources.

  • 10 years ago

    Mary, It is amazing how little I shop now (online or off) that we live out in the boondocks. There's just almost no place I want to go badly enough to spend all the time driving there and back when there's always so much else to amuse me at home. It is just as well. The money I used to spend out shopping at the mall (conveniently located midway between my place of employment and our house when we lived in Ft Worth), well, that now is money spent on the garden and on food preservation supplies....and I am much happier now than I was then. Our idea of a big shopping excursion is to drive down to the metroplex, go to CostCo, get gasoline at the CostCo station, then go next door to the Steak and Shake place for lunch and then head home. On the way home, we'll stop at Sam's Club in Denton if there is anything they have that we need and which CostCo does not carry (often it is certain supplies for the VFD), and then if we can think of anything we didn't get at one of the big warehouse clubs, I pop into the Wal-Mart next door to Sam's to get it. Our final stop is a Lowe's or Home Depot if we need anything they carry. It sounds like a long day, but we do it all rather quickly....bam, bam, bam. In and out of each store quickly, getting only what is on our list and zipping on to the next place. The whole time I'm thinking of what I could be doing if we were at home. There's always so much work in the garden and kitchen calling out to me. Because the garden provides so much of our food, we buy a lot less food than we once did which further shortens the shopping trips, other than buying he kinds of things we need to can or to preserve our food in some other way. Malls just don't hold the same attraction for me that they once did. I'm too busy to spend time in them. Maybe once every month or two, we add Central Market to the list to pick up a few favorite items that are hard to find. After even a half a day down in the D-FW metro area, I'm ready to go home and to go back into hibernation.

    Johnny, That's so true. One of the things that drives me crazy is how much fossil fuel is used to ship food not just across the country but around the food. The average food item in a grocery store travels at least 1500 miles to get to the store. The average home-grown food we love travels 150 feet at most from our garden to our kitchen. Which one is more sustainable?

    Dawn

  • 10 years ago

    Amen, co-sign, and ditto that!