My wife and I are building a house and are having a difficult time choosing a stain color. The columns will be stained. along with shutters on the two lower windows on the stone and the window above the garage that also has a stained a flower box. We are adding stained starbursts over the right and left gables. My wife doesn't like too much red or yellow in the stain. We are probably going to paint the front door white but are also open to suggestions for that as well. Thanks for your help.